Discussions from Etiquette and Advice

So i am trying to figure out how much money i am spending on alcohol. No liquor. Just kegs and wine. Can anyone help me decide how many kegs to buy? And how much wine? We are having around 150 guests...

I'm leaning towards not having a guest book. However, I don't know proper wedding etiquette. Am I supposed to send thank you cards to all the guests who attended? I'm thinking without the guest book I...

So it’s 3 months after my wedding and I finally got all of my photos back and a link to a 4 minute highlight video. They approached me in my initial search for a photographer/videographer and offered...

Hey Everyone! We just booked our wedding venue for May 12, 2024. A day later after booking, my aunt told me I booked our wedding on Mother's Day! I know there are a lot of discussions about this and...

I feel bad for my soon to be husband. My parents and including us are the ones paying for the wedding. We're so thankful for my parents help, but feel sooo bad that his parents haven't offered to help...

FH and I picked out our wedding bands last Saturday (Macy's is having a great fine jewelry sale so we got our rings for around 65% off) and we're discussing what we'd like to write to each other on...

My boyfriend really wants a black wedding band. I am strongly opposed to getting him one because 1) I don’t think they look like wedding bands. Black rings can be anything from promise rings to...

We're planning to have a variety of desserts and a fabulous doughnut wall to add a unique touch to the celebration. Now, since I'm not familiar with American wedding customs, I was hoping to get some...

Hello my fellow lovely brides! I need some help. Back when my fiancé and I got engaged, I was getting to know his female best friend (known each other for 16 years) and thought it would be a nice...

I’ve envisioned a small intimate wedding for years, which is the main reason I’ve decided on a destination wedding. We have put 25 rooms on hold, so the aim is between 50-60 guests. Our list consists...

We went to a wedding this weekend and the couple advised everyone ahead of time that the wedding was going to be a dry wedding. We appreciated knowing this in advance because for a wedding around 2...

Hi all! I have 2 kids from my previous marriage and I am getting married again. I want my kids included in the wedding. My 13 year old daughter ( who will be 14 at the time of the wedding) requested...

I'm not sure if it would be in poor taste not to invite certain coworkers of mine. I work part time at a UU church. I was going to see if they would let me rent some tables from them to save money. I...

Whats the etiquette on tipping your vendors? Do I tip all vendors, just those who don't work for themselves? And how much? Help!

So this is just something I am curious about. I have heard some people who have already had sex all of a sudden stop sometime before the wedding. We have lived together over 3 years now and have...

I’m only having a MOH no bridesmaid and my fiancé is having 5 groomsmen - I’m worried it will not good. ( I am having flowers girls n ring bear) I’m worried how our pictures will come out, anyone have...

I have everything I believe we need for our wedding next Friday but wanted to reach out for opinions or tips for anything else we may need that I may have forgotten or didn't think of that would take...

In need of some advice... Our photographer was supposed to give us our photos 6-8 weeks after our wedding. We reached out at the 6-week mark and they said they had a few weddings ahead of us and would...

I'm getting married in the UK next year but live in the US. My FMIL wants to throw a shower for me here in the US and invite people who aren't invited to the wedding (such as her close friends etc)....

Hi, We are in the process of sending out save the dates in a few weeks. Leading up to that, we have reached out to our current guest list to collect contact info such as an address for the save the...