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To invite or not to invite
Samantha, on August 24, 2023 at 11:52 AM

I'm not sure if it would be in poor taste not to invite certain coworkers of mine. I work part time at a UU church. I was going to see if they would let me rent some tables from them to save money. I...

Michelle, Aug 25, 2023 3 565
Brendan
Tipping vendors
Brendan, on July 31, 2023 at 3:55 PM

Whats the etiquette on tipping your vendors? Do I tip all vendors, just those who don't work for themselves? And how much? Help!

Sam, Aug 25, 2023 4 2,125
SydsMom
Anyone waiting ..or..did wait until wedding night to be intimate?
SydsMom, on July 19, 2015 at 7:09 PM

So this is just something I am curious about. I have heard some people who have already had sex all of a sudden stop sometime before the wedding. We have lived together over 3 years now and have...

Samantha, Aug 24, 2023 30 3,219
Jillian
Uneven bridal party
Jillian, on August 11, 2023 at 12:26 PM

I’m only having a MOH no bridesmaid and my fiancé is having 5 groomsmen - I’m worried it will not good. ( I am having flowers girls n ring bear) I’m worried how our pictures will come out, anyone have...

Jacks, Aug 24, 2023 6 737
Korrina
Any last minute tips or things to do?
Korrina, on August 24, 2023 at 2:07 AM

I have everything I believe we need for our wedding next Friday but wanted to reach out for opinions or tips for anything else we may need that I may have forgotten or didn't think of that would take...

Kimberly, Aug 24, 2023 2 277 1
Logan
Our photographer has not given us our photos from our wedding in May
Logan, on July 28, 2023 at 11:43 AM

In need of some advice... Our photographer was supposed to give us our photos 6-8 weeks after our wedding. We reached out at the 6-week mark and they said they had a few weddings ahead of us and would...

Michael, Aug 24, 2023 4 507 1
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Overseas Wedding - inviting guests to shower but not the wedding
Hannah, on August 21, 2023 at 6:13 PM

I'm getting married in the UK next year but live in the US. My FMIL wants to throw a shower for me here in the US and invite people who aren't invited to the wedding (such as her close friends etc)....

CM, Aug 21, 2023 4 424
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Save the Dates for Guest who did not return contact info?
Sahil, on August 20, 2023 at 1:24 PM

Hi, We are in the process of sending out save the dates in a few weeks. Leading up to that, we have reached out to our current guest list to collect contact info such as an address for the save the...

CM, Aug 20, 2023 3 377
Melissa
5Yr anniversary vow renewal etiquette as a covid bride
Melissa, on August 16, 2023 at 10:28 AM

Hello! My husband and I were married in a small ceremony of 10 people (including the JP) in October 2020. It was immediate family only and while we still did our ceremony, ring exchange, I wore a nice...

Rosebud, Aug 19, 2023 11 1,493
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My new last name same as ex-wife
Valerie, on October 3, 2018 at 6:25 PM

My husbands ex-wife kept his last name when they divorced (I am assuming solely because of their daughter). I cannot stand her, and neither can he (but they are civil for the child’s sake). My issue...

Brittney, Aug 19, 2023 53 8,842 1
Shay
Strolling reception
Shay, on July 24, 2012 at 10:25 PM

My FH and I elected to have a strolling reception for 170 people. It's strolling in that we have 3 tapas food stations, high top tables, and open seating for 80 people (aside from parents,...

Iliana, Aug 19, 2023 59 12,432 2
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Disappointed mom of groom
Mother, on March 2, 2015 at 1:23 AM

Finished the final cuts to "our" side of guest list. We have 30 people. There will be about 300 people invited total for the wedding. We are hosting a rehearsal dinner for about 75, and only about 10...

Elizabeth, Aug 19, 2023 51 8,599
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Small Wedding Time Capsule Notes
Whitney, on August 18, 2023 at 5:40 PM

Hi Everyone! We are having a wedding with just our parents and one friend each. We would like to incorporate a time capsule ceremony and were thinking about sending a letter to the rest of our friends...

Jacks, Aug 18, 2023 2 763
Leah
Elopement Etiquette?
Leah, on August 17, 2023 at 12:22 PM

Hello! Trying to figure out whether I should be inviting the photographer or the officiant to the post elopement meal or not? It would be just the groom, the bride, the photographer, and the officiant...

Kimberly, Aug 18, 2023 4 205
Alana
Wedding Invitations
Alana, on February 15, 2023 at 8:09 AM

So I am getting married Saturday, September 30th of this year. My fiance and I have started to think about invitations. Our venue needs the final headcount 30 days before and since we are getting...

Kyle, Aug 17, 2023 8 849
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Service Fee/tipping Caterers
Katherine, on August 16, 2023 at 10:48 PM

Our wedding will be at a vineyard venue where the venue will be providing the alcohol and the caterer will be only managing food. We are doing a sit down dinner with a salad and main entree. Our...

Jm Sunshine, Aug 16, 2023 1 414
Ellie
Crate and Barrel Registry Issues - Thank You Manager Sucks!
Ellie, on August 15, 2023 at 10:42 AM

Hey! Has anyone else had issues with receiving gifts from your Crate and Barrel registry where you have no idea who it’s from? We’ve received 5 gifts from our CB registry so far. Only 1 has been...

Ellie, Aug 15, 2023 2 3,119
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Tacky to send wedding announcement ahead of the wedding?
Ellie, on August 11, 2023 at 1:19 PM

I know that the best practice is to send a wedding announcement after the wedding, if you choose to send one at all. But I’m having a unique problem with my family. We’re eloping out of the country...

Jacks, Aug 11, 2023 5 826
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Strip Clubs 🙄
Kate, on August 29, 2018 at 9:16 PM

So...how many of you are all about the strip clubs for bachelor or bachelorette parties? I had mine and we didnt go at all. We went out to eat, to the beach, did something fun during the day, and...

Kendra, Aug 11, 2023 44 3,660
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Average Price for Engagement Photos?
Private User, on July 13, 2014 at 3:38 AM

Just a quick question, to make sure the price is right.

Kelly, Aug 10, 2023 39 23,627
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