I’ve envisioned a small intimate wedding for years, which is the main reason I’ve decided on a destination wedding. We have put 25 rooms on hold, so the aim is between 50-60 guests. Our list consists of family and mutual friends (neither of us are very social so we don’t have many friends that the other doesn’t know). With that being said, no one on our list would be uncomfortable or not know anyone. All of our mutual friends are in long term relationships. My friends partners are my FH’s friends 😅
However, my mother feels I should keep the invite open for plus ones because 1) people love weddings and weddings are to be celebrated 2) a plus one would enjoy Jamaica as a nice vacation.
If anyone were to bring a plus one, they would be a complete stranger because we’ve already included all of our friends and family with their SOs. I’m very opposed to a stranger at our wedding weekend, as I’m very reserved and easily overstimulated. I would prefer just close friends and family and have even kept this list as small as possible (it’s grown in part thanks to my mother 😅). I’ve seen that it’s nice to include plus ones to DW so guest don’t have to travel alone, but in this case I can’t think of anyone on the guest list would even need to travel alone or not know anyone?
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