Discussions from Etiquette and Advice

What is a fun way to ask someone to be an usher for your wedding?

Ok so this is kind of a rant because I can't believe how rude some people are. So at work today a customer just flat out asked if my ring was fake. I politely said it's not and she went on to say she...

Are you giving your guests different ways to RSVP or are you just doing the RSVP card w/postage? I am trying to decide on whether I should give my guests more than one way to RSVP.

My desire to leave happened last year but I was knocked down during a work conference from an attempted burglary and the kindness of my manager made me stay. Now that the wedding is done the more I...

Hi! So we're planning a wedding and the dinner is in a separate room from the ballroom (same venue, just separated by a door). We will have about 125-150 guests, which would take up most of the dining...

Hello My brother is getting married in Toronto, and I haven't spoken to him in a while because I live in Korea. My boyfriend and I (and my little dog) flew from Seoul to New York to Toronto for my...

There's a lot of common advice give on this forum and from other wedding advice sites. My experience flew in the face of a lot of advice, so I want to share my experience. 1."Only about 10-15 people...

Hello everyone! LONG POST ALERT: My fiance' and I are getting married in our hometown. We don't want a very large wedding and want our reception to have an intimate feel. However, we both have large...

My parents have said that they refuse to have any dancing at all during the reception. It is a light reception, in the afternoon (about two hours in length, no alcohol), but my fiance wanted to at...

Hi! I'm having a little trouble deciding on the best way to communicate our specific "kid policy." We're getting married Nov. 20 in northern IL, evening ceremony and reception both in a large barn on...

We've been dating for 3 years. Living together for a year and a half. Engaged for 3 months. Our parents still haven't met. Really he's only met mine a handful of times. I'm not very close with my...

Hello all! This is my first post, yay. FH and I are planning on 'eloping' with a weddingmoon. Our eloping is not a secret; we are being very open about our plans. We are doing this for many reason...

So I got married on Saturday! Pictures and recap coming soon. As my photographer was packing up and leaving he weave thru my guests handing out business cards to random people. Several people looked...

My fiancé and I are having a black-tie wedding in 2025. He and his family are HUGE oyster fans and have an oyster station at every wedding. My mom does not think that oysters fit the vibe of a...

Good Morning, I asked for sponsorship in person toward my family and in laws a couple months ago and they said yes. but i will like to send a message again to ask them if they are still willing to be...

Hello everyone, So me and my fiancée are conflicted. I think we should send save the dates to everyone (2 different ones) 1 for those invited in person and 1 for those invited on Zoom. My fiancee...

My fiancé and I live in FL & I am originally from CA. My parents are paying for most of our wedding in Miami, and wanted to host an engagement party in LA. We agreed to a lowkey, intimate affair...

I have been with my boyfriend for a year, I know his family and we get along well! My boyfriend is in the wedding as a groomsmen, I am not in the wedding. I am not sure how to act or what to do during...

Hi, we are not having a wedding party for various reasons. This will seemingly cause no issues (we have an alternative for who's holding the rings, for example) except that I won't have someone to...

Hello! My not the bride, I'm the maid of honor and have a question. My best friend and I are from CA, all her family and most of her friends are here. She recently moved for school and met the man of...