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How to handle a lot of Kids at a wedding?
Vanessa, on October 26, 2023 at 10:55 AM

Hey everyone! So, to keep this short, my fiance's family has a LOT of kids. We have to go over it again, but from recent weddings of family members we've been to, I know there will probably be 15-25...

Michelle, Nov 24, 2023 3 764
Xandria
Wedding/life Advice Needed
Xandria, on November 21, 2023 at 2:33 AM

My fiance’s sister keeps having mental breakdowns. Recently she was saying things like she hates her twin sister’s husband for stealing her twin from her, and she called him up and started yelling at...

Natalie, Nov 22, 2023 10 783
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Surprise significant other on rsvp
Meghan, on November 7, 2023 at 7:26 PM

My fiance and I are planning a super intimate and small destination wedding. We are only having 20 guests and included in our invitations that we wanted to be able to spend quality time on our wedding...

David, Nov 21, 2023 7 670
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Loving memories...
Shemetrus, on November 19, 2023 at 10:31 PM

Hello all, so my fiance' and I are getting married next year. He has recently lost his grandmother, and about 8 years ago his grandfather. There's sometimes a little tribute to those that are unable...

Shemetrus, Nov 20, 2023 4 623
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How to tell bridesmaid to pay for own hair and makeup?
Linda, on November 14, 2023 at 12:50 AM

I've been a bridesmaid 4x and only once was my makeup paid for. Now being a bride, I am seeing how expensive it is. I gave the BMs the options to do their own hair and makeup. However, if they wanted...

Michelle, Nov 19, 2023 6 1,034
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Invitation Dress Code Etiquette
Abbie, on November 16, 2023 at 11:03 AM

We have a very specific question for our invitations. A little context: We are having 2 events for our wedding - (1) a Welcome Party and (2) the actual wedding & reception. So our invitation is...

Michelle, Nov 19, 2023 7 1,109
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Question regarding Groom's Father - Help
, on November 14, 2023 at 1:04 PM

Hello, If the groom's father is divorced from groom's mother and remarried, and the groom's grandfather is deceased, who should the groom escort down to the aisle - his wife of his mother (groom's...

David, Nov 16, 2023 18 312
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Invitation Wording
Abbie, on November 14, 2023 at 10:14 AM

Hopefully a quick question! We are splitting the cost of the wedding three ways (me and FH, my parents, his parents). How should we word the host line of the invitation? Thank you!

Andrea, Nov 16, 2023 5 591
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Destination Wedding - Skipping the Rehearsal Dinner. Yay or nay?
Karolyn, on October 25, 2023 at 11:36 PM

We're having a destination wedding on a Friday. While we expect mostly everyone to show up Thursday, I was wondering if it's in bad taste to skip the rehearsal dinner. We're approaching the max of our...

Ashlee, Nov 14, 2023 2 322
Darian
Save the dates as invitations???
Darian, on December 7, 2021 at 1:57 PM

Hi! I am having a smaller wedding 10-14-2022 with 75 guests. We are trying to be budget friendly and cut costs wherever possible! I know traditionally you send save the dates and then send invitations...

Mina, Nov 14, 2023 18 3,080 1
Combay
No sex before wedding?
Combay, on October 9, 2012 at 9:25 PM

I'm just wondering if anyone taking a mutual break before the wedding. I asked FH if we could take a month off before our wedding night. Is that dumb?

Emily, Nov 13, 2023 56 4,131
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Question bridesmaids
Jamie, on October 31, 2023 at 2:43 PM

So long story short I met this girl a few months ago and we instantly clicked. We are becoming closer everyday and she has slowly become a really close friend to me. My fiancé and I got engaged last...

David, Nov 12, 2023 5 672
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My wedding flowers were disappointing
Zaina, on May 11, 2023 at 11:33 AM

Maybe someone who knows more about flowers can manage my expectations? My wedding flowers cost about $6700. A bulk of the cost was our ceremony arch. I ordered an arch, bouquet, 15 table...

Dana, Nov 12, 2023 7 924
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No gift or cards from friendship group help me get over it
Selina, on March 28, 2021 at 6:14 AM

I got married a year ago and am so surprised at my friend group who got me nothing at all. The only reason I’m upset is because I have chipped in to every baby shower gift, bridal shower, engagement...

CM, Nov 10, 2023 12 2,051
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Pro and Cons for skipping a cocktail hour !
Team_Rayford, on November 4, 2013 at 8:41 PM

I honestly don't feel like we need one. Our ceremony and reception is a 6 minute drive apart. I would like to offer a flavored soft drink,but no actual apps until the reception starts. Is it really...

Jana, Nov 10, 2023 22 3,674
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Mailing invites to celebrities
Nay, on May 28, 2014 at 4:37 PM

I've seen it posted before that some people mail invites to celebrities, even the President and get a signed letter or sometimes they actually respond on the card with a nice note. Has anyone done...

Michael, Nov 9, 2023 65 3,481 1
Mattea
Wedding Shower Advice!
Mattea, on November 8, 2023 at 1:12 PM

My Fiancé and I are planning on having a small wedding ceremony with our parents and grandparents present and that’s it. We are also planning to have a reception where everybody is invited, would...

Michelle, Nov 8, 2023 4 837
Sabrina
Save the Dates
Sabrina, on November 7, 2023 at 7:02 PM

My fiancé and I are having a destination wedding in the Caribbean. Our date is August 1, 2025. We’ve already created Save the Dates that are prepped and ready to send. Our original plan was to send...

Veronica, Nov 8, 2023 2 685
Britt
Still haven't received wedding video. Advice? (update)
Britt, on March 18, 2017 at 6:08 PM

Hi there! I have not posted in a while but I was married 11/3/16 and had a great wedding! My post here is about our videographer. Our contract says to allow up to 120 days to receive the edited...

Esther, Nov 8, 2023 26 7,983 1
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Best man’s fiancé not invited to wedding
Blake, on October 23, 2023 at 4:33 PM

Hello all. I need some brutally honest opinions. If you were the finance of a best man, but not invited to the said wedding, would you be happy inviting that couple that snubbed you to your own...

Rita, Nov 7, 2023 25 2,245
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