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Plus one taken away
Emily, on October 5, 2023 at 7:47 AM

I am the MOH in my long time (18 years) best friends wedding next August. My girlfriend and I have been together for 2 years now and will likely be getting engaged this coming spring- so I will be...

Peyton, Oct 6, 2023 10 687
RaeGin
Maiden name, 2nd middle name
RaeGin, on February 22, 2017 at 7:47 AM

Good morning all, I plan to take FH's last name after we're married, but I have an uncommon last name currently (which I love), and I'm not wanting to let go of it completely. I know that I've seen...

Ashley, Oct 2, 2023 38 20,722 2
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First Dance/ Parent Dances
Rima, on September 7, 2014 at 11:16 PM

Hi all! So neither me or my groom are too comfortable with the first dance. Our solution was to dance by ourselves for about a minute and a half and then have the DJ invite others to join us on the...

Clare, Oct 1, 2023 5 3,429
Brittany
Bad Luck Start Time. Anyone else ever heard this?
Brittany, on March 18, 2015 at 9:15 PM

Reading the thread about start times got me thinking about this. I've always heard that it's bad luck to start your wedding ceremony on the hour. Instead it should be started on the half hour. The...

Kimberly, Sep 29, 2023 38 5,488
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Anyone heard of this for the garter toss?
Texaschic, on March 26, 2010 at 3:58 PM

So I have a friend who is in an arguement with his fiance over the garter toss so he asked me to see what others thought. According to the girl, the garter toss consists of the bride sitting on the...

Kelsey, Sep 28, 2023 57 5,413
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Invite a friend who got married recently and didn’t even tell me?
Anya, on September 26, 2023 at 2:23 PM

So I’ve gone back and fourth on this for quite some time, but need a non biased opinion! I have a friend whom I’ve known for few years now, she was originally a coworker whom actually was a little...

CM, Sep 28, 2023 8 814
WorthTheWait
Anyone have a diamond/ring from James Allen?
WorthTheWait, on June 7, 2017 at 12:03 AM

We went ring shopping recently, and fiancé did the smart thing by bringing me with him! We are basically picking it out together. We have looked at a lot of places, and we are now looking at some...

Heather, Sep 28, 2023 18 11,669
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Excluding extended family?
Amanda, on September 25, 2023 at 12:36 PM

My fiancé and I are not close to most of our extended family members. We’re planning our wedding and would like to limit the ceremony and reception to our parents, grandparents, siblings, and close...

Michelle, Sep 26, 2023 24 3,012
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Would it be polite to state that ceremony is adult-only celebration on the invites?
Heather, on September 21, 2023 at 6:39 PM

I have a lot of time to figure out invites. I'm thinking ahead so I have less to worry about when I need them to be ordered. We are having an adult only ceremony and reception. I'm not going to over...

CM, Sep 26, 2023 10 834 1
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Parental contributions to paying for wedding
Alexandra, on September 20, 2023 at 3:12 PM

How much is common for the groom's family to contribute to the wedding? Has anyone experienced no help at all from groom's parents?

Veronica, Sep 26, 2023 7 978
Valerie
Tipping Vendors
Valerie, on September 25, 2023 at 2:57 AM

What is the general rule of thumb for tipping the vendors? What vendors should I tip and how much?

Lisa, Sep 25, 2023 2 677
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i can’t afford my friends Bach, and she didn’t take it well. What to do?
Lyn, on September 20, 2023 at 6:12 PM

My friends bachelorette is in 5 months, and her MOH is asking for vacation rental payment ($800) now. I’m currently unemployed and planning my own very budget conscious wedding, and my friend...

Michelle, Sep 24, 2023 12 2,828
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Tipping
Pamela, on September 5, 2023 at 10:28 PM

Hi I was wondering what is the appropriate amount to tip hairdresser, photographer and dj?

Lilly, Sep 24, 2023 5 658
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How to handle a future sibling-in-law getting married less than two months before you?
Francine, on April 4, 2018 at 2:21 PM

So, I'm new here and I apologize for the long post ahead but appreciate any help/advice you could give! I am recently engaged and I cannot wait to marry the love of my life. It took a long time for us...

Sarah, Sep 24, 2023 55 8,735 1
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Celebration of Marriage
Daniel, on September 22, 2023 at 11:32 PM

A couple of friends have asked me to "officiate" their wedding. They got married a few weeks ago at the Justice of the Peace and they are wanting to have a ceremony for family and friends. I am not...

Lisa, Sep 24, 2023 5 1,317
LoveBubbles
Am I missing something? Why do you let parents invite guests?
LoveBubbles, on January 4, 2016 at 12:18 PM

So here is my question. I have been on WW for quite a while now and just about every week there is a discussion/vent on parents inviting guests to people's weddings. While I completely understand if...

John, Sep 23, 2023 54 31,915
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Bride and Groom Gift Exchange - Help!!!
Anthony, on August 23, 2023 at 1:19 PM

Hi, My wedding is a couple weeks away and I keep second guessing myself on if what I got my bride is acceptable for the gift exchange. I purchased a trip to a place we have been wanting to visit, but...

Michael, Sep 22, 2023 10 1,006 1
September Splendor
How do you NOT INVITE some of your family?
September Splendor, on February 8, 2016 at 10:52 AM

I love all of my family...I have one Aunt and a set of Cousins from out of town that I just don't want to invite to my wedding and/or reception. It is not that I don't love them...but every time they...

Emma, Sep 22, 2023 25 7,427
Kiki
Digital Engagement Party Invitations?
Kiki, on March 6, 2019 at 1:20 PM

Is it okay to send engagement party invitations digitally? (Through text, email, Facebook message, etc)? I found some really cute ones, but I don't want to go through with it if it is a huge no-no!

Allen, Sep 22, 2023 12 1,850
Trena
I won a bridal show giveaway... is it a scam?
Trena, on January 12, 2012 at 12:24 AM

I just got a call saying my fi and I won either a mini-moon to a variety of locales, or free wedding bands. The only hitch is to go to a cooking demo. I made absolutely sure that there is no financial...

Michael, Sep 21, 2023 16 3,565
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