So here is my question. I have been on WW for quite a while now and just about every week there is a discussion/vent on parents inviting guests to people's weddings. While I completely understand if the parents are paying or contributing to the wedding in some way many times the bride says on her post that the couple themselves is footing the bill. Can someone explain to me why if you are paying for your wedding you are letting you parents have a portion of your guest list (sometimes as high as 40% from what I have read on here). Many times it seems people are complaining of the friends, neighbors, co-workers that parents want to invite. I get extended family members your parents cherish but do you really want to see your parents current co-workers in your wedding photos 25 years from now? What am I missing? Is this a cultural thing to pay but let other's have a say on your guest list?