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Just Said Yes September 2024

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Sunniezy, on June 26, 2023 at 12:44 AM Posted in Etiquette and Advice 0 2

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Long story short my best friend she’s my maid of honor and her mom and her had a falling out with her and her husband. I am close to her mom cause she’s like a second mom to me cause she has helped me a lot with living in a state i have no family throughout the year. I’ve been best friends with my friend for seven years and I’ve known her mom a little bit through out the years. My best friend doesn’t feel comfortable if her mom is at the wedding cause of the issue and she won’t be able to enjoy herself and her husband won’t either cause her mom will be potentially be there. My fiancé said they should just get over it but I don’t want to make anyone uncomfortable or choosing over the other person. What should I do?

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Latest activity by CM, on June 26, 2023 at 7:39 AM

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Jacks · on June 26, 2023 at 1:23 AM
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I would avoid getting involved in anything about this until next summer. Your wedding isn't for more than a year, and there's lots of time to figure it out. I would stop discussing the guest list at all saying it's way too early.
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CM · on June 26, 2023 at 7:39 AM
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Why are you thinking about this now? September 2024 is a long ways away. Even STDs won’t be sent for some time and those should only go to your definites.

It sounds as if you became close to this year or since the move through your friend. Are you social friends apart from your best friend? Do you anticipate continuing to see her independently at this time? If not, she’s not going to be expecting an invitation.
By this time next year your relationship may look different, or your friend may have made up with her mom.
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