Discussions from Etiquette and Advice

FH wants a Tantalum ring. I would really like to go to a physical store but every store I call says it's a newer metal used for men's rings so they aren't carrying it yet. Does anybody know any...

I plan on mailing a little gift (proposal) for my potential wedding party , how do they respond if you don't hand deliver the package? I'd prefer mailing so they don't feel pressured to say yes but I...

Hey everyone how long have you been engaged to be married and what is considered a long engagement?

How can you claim wedding expenses on your taxes?

Hi ladies, who has done a sparkler exit or plans to do one? How do guests feel about it? Any advice would be great. I bought the sparklers and a cute sign. So I guess I'm ready for it but wanting...

So, our wedding is 9-15-18. I was planning on sending invitations out 5-15 and asking for rsvps back on 7-15. My caterer said she would like to have a headcount 4 weeks before and my venue needs a...

FH and I are registering on Zola. Should I put the website on the back of the date or just link our website?

I have an older sister, we aren't that close (her choice). I've tried to plan dinners with her and her son, trips, holiday get-togethers etc. She never takes me up on my offer. She also never extends...

Is anyone else doing something besides bouquets? I'm trying to find other ideas to cut cost down, or maybe just do flower crowns since it will be a flowy, and relaxing beach wedding.

Hi, sorry for the double post, but need help on a catering issue. Yesterday evening I had a guest text me to tell me that her and her husband have decided to be vegan and requested we changed their...

Did you do your speeches during dinner or right after dinner was finished? My DOC recommended waiting until after everybody ate so that the people giving speeches had time to finish eating before...

I have a question. I’m not a bride anymore but using my account . A close friend asked me to be in her wedding party. Her Bridesmaids are a lot younger than me. Some living with parents with good...

My FH and I are working on our guest list and he wanted to add this woman that he has been very good friends with for a long time. However, she and I knew each other before I met him and we had a huge...

Hi everyone! We are getting married in California. We are trying to figure out how to ask FH's Grandma to officiate our wedding, is this a no? She's the only "friendor" we'd hire. We were going to ask...

Does anyone have advice on how to score deals for wedding night suites? Are hotels likely to offer upgrades to newlyweds on their wedding night? Any recommendations for a romantic suite near Malibu,...

So we want a small wedding with a few people but we want more people at the reception. I am worried that people won't want to goo to the reception to celebrate a wedding they didn't attend.. any...

I'm trying to decide how much I should spend on each person. I know they are spending a lot of money on travel dresses and such and I don't want them to be like wow she was cheap. How much did you all...

I have asked my five closest friends including family to be my bridesmaids but my FH only wants his two brothers as his groomsmen. I have no problem for the start of the ceremony but what about the...

We got engaged in late October and it is now December and freezing out! We prefer country outdoor photos but it is so cold out now. The photographer I like the most locally is on maternity leave until...

Hi! Long time lurker here, I have never had to post before as almost any WR question I have had has been previously answered on the forum, which I love. However, I have a more personal question and...