Discussions from Etiquette and Advice

Our wedding will be December 22,2018 in a beautiful little town in Vermont. It's somewhat of a destination wedding as most guests are coming from either MA/NY. With our wedding being so close to the...

Hello Lovelies, So I just booked my hair and makeup artist, and I noticed the salon charged a 15% gratuity on top of the price. Is this the tip, or should I still plan on tipping on the wedding day...

Hi there! I am getting ready to mail out my save the dates and ran into a question. Do I include plus ones on the save the date label? I was only planning on included the "and guest" on my actual...

This may seem like common sense for some, but I figured I would ask just the same to get a broader perspective. I had Thank You notes printed of my new H's photography from our beautiful venue in the...

My very close friend is getting married and has decided not to have bridesmaids, just a MOH. She thinks it's too much work to organize a bridal party. However, she's still asking those of us who she...

So I wanted to get a nice bottle of whiskey for my uncle who is walking me down the isle. I know nothing about hard liquor. Is this a good bottle? If not, any suggestions? Thanks!...

So I am tossing ideas in my head and thinking about costs. So my FH and I want to do a nature wedding( A very casual one). We thought afterwards it would be fun to do camping since we want our wedding...

I need opinions! We are having an adults only wedding. However, we have 5 kids that have a role in our ceremony (flower girl, ring bearer, etc.) and it is unrealistic (to me) to ask their parents to...

Hi all! My wedding dress just arrived, way sooner that I originally thought! I brought my bridesmaids, MOH, grandmother, aunt, future MIL, and my mom dress shopping (I went twice, different people...

My FH wants to have a silicone ring from Qalo instead of a metal ring. So, when we are exchanging rings at the ceremony, I will have a metal ring and he will have a silicone ring. Would that look...

I'm trying to plan out how much cash we need to take out for the tip envelopes. The venue is an all exclusive type on LI so it cuts down on the people we need to tip (i.e. no caterer). There is an...

Our wedding was on October 28, and as soon as our wedding photos arrive this week we want to print out some thank-you cards to send to guests that gave us wedding gifts. However, I also want to send...

We are going to be having our dog be our "flower girl" since we don't know anyone with a young daughter. I have asked one of my bridesmaids' daughter's who is 10 to walk with the dog, so kind of like...

I know that most of you will say these should be hand written but I don't have time nor the patience to do so. I want to buy a stamp but I'm torn on what to put. Do I just use our first names or do I...

I've read a lot of posts recently regarding this and it always ends with the fact that it hurts the relationship and ends the friendship. As of earlier today, one of my friends from HS told me she...

Im trying to decide if I should create RSVP cards to stick in with the invitations (I know this is traditional, also more costly)... And the much easier route of RSVP through our wedding website (we...

So first off I haven't planned anything lol we just had our baby November 2nd so basically I've been pregnant most of our engagement. We did look at venues over the last few months and again today,...

When are you supposed to purchase/give your FH his wedding band?

Hey just wondering if it's okay to reach out to guests who have not RSVP'd. I know life gets busy and people forget. I just need a better head count. What are your thoughts? Reaching out or work with...

Hey! Anyone else planning a wedding as a stay at home mom? Obviously FH makes 90% of our money. I stay at home with my daughter, I watch another little girl throughout the week, and every so often I...