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Elite
Elope in a Vacation rental??
Elite, on November 24, 2017 at 9:47 AM

FH and I were discussing our initial plans to have a courthouse wedding but then figured that it would be better to elope in a beautiful vacation rental with just us, our child and his parents. We...

plangalCG, Nov 24, 2017 10 95
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Awkward Bridesmaid Decisions
Brittany, on November 24, 2017 at 4:02 AM

I'd only ever planned for my sister and my best friend to be bridesmaids but now I have two future sister-in-laws to consider as well and while I'd be happy to include one of them, I'm really... iffy...

Joanna, Nov 24, 2017 67 218
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Should my father be a part of my wedding?
R, on November 24, 2017 at 11:28 AM

I'm having a little trouble on deciding what to do about inviting my father to our wedding who I am not on good terms with and I want to hear how others in similar situations handled this. We haven't...

Millie, Nov 24, 2017 10 107
Shannan
Destination wedding and bachelorette party
Shannan , on November 23, 2017 at 5:13 AM

Any brides live away from family/friends that want to or have had destination weddings and bachelorette parties? Did people come? I live a few states away from most family and a few friends that I...

Katelyn, Nov 24, 2017 10 1,760
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Who else received an heirloom ring?
LouLou6218, on November 22, 2017 at 2:24 PM

This is going to sound really bad... I was proposed to with a ring that is my FH maternal grandmother ring and I don’t like how it looks at all. It’s a really amazing gesture and I feel horrible that...

Margaret, Nov 23, 2017 30 1,413
Jennifer
Registry Page Etiquette help!
Jennifer, on November 18, 2017 at 8:09 PM

I know you're not supposed to mention gifts or your registry per proper wedding etiquette. But, several friends and family members keep asking about where we're registered (we aren't registered...

Ashli, Nov 22, 2017 6 153
Christine
Asking guest for money for accommodations
Christine, on November 18, 2017 at 8:40 PM

We are looking at a venue that comes with an estate house that sleeps up to 18 guests. Is it inappropriate or rude to ask guest staying in the house for money? Many of our guest will be staying at...

September Bride, Nov 22, 2017 33 2,385
Mrs. Brock
heavy duty plastic plates.. Tacky?
Mrs. Brock, on March 22, 2013 at 11:42 AM

My catering company offers, basic, acrylic, or white china with gold riim. that doesnt even match with my decor. Any ways, I found some really nice heavy dute plastic plates. & since Im having a...

Letatia, Nov 22, 2017 40 592
Pham
Canvas photo for wedding guest book
Pham, on November 21, 2017 at 8:28 PM

My FH and I want to have a canvas print of one of our engagement photos as our guest book. I was wondering where I should get our print from (our photographer doesn't offer it)? I've heard of...

Victoria, Nov 22, 2017 9 285
Sarah
Receiving line or Mingling
Sarah, on November 21, 2017 at 12:33 PM

So where I'm from receiving lines are usually expected, but I have a hard time standing longer than ten minutes (heart condition) so do you think we should walk around tables and mingle or just do a...

Steph N., Nov 22, 2017 23 207
Elite
Small diamond ladiessssss.....Let me see those small diamond halo's (half carat and lower)
Elite, on November 20, 2017 at 5:13 PM

Yeahhhh...I am representing the small diamond halo crew. I don't have my ring yet but my ring is going to be a .4 ct center diamond with a blinged out halo...Give me some inspiration. Let's see your...

Stephanie, Nov 21, 2017 124 5,834
TAP
Rehearsal dinner
TAP, on November 21, 2017 at 5:55 PM

Are rehearsal dinners necessary? Has anyone on here not done one? Pros, cons? Or if you do have one - can you just invite both immediate families and bridal party? I clearly have no idea how these...

TAP, Nov 21, 2017 12 80
mtall912
Co workers asking for registry info
mtall912, on November 21, 2017 at 5:47 PM

So I have a couple people asking for my registry info at work so they can get me gifts, but they know they aren't invited to the wedding. What do I do? I feel odd accepting gifts and not having them...

BohoRN2017, Nov 21, 2017 18 2,042
Kristin
Kegs at the wedding
Kristin, on November 19, 2017 at 9:41 PM

Our venue allows us to bring our own alcohol. After doing some preliminary research, it seems that it is the less expensive and better way to go for us. We are offering a full bar, but the wedding is...

Mrs. Fall Bride, Nov 20, 2017 22 3,650
Monica
Estranged 1st cousins/Family Drama Invites
Monica, on November 20, 2017 at 10:56 AM

What did you all do about dramatic family member invites? Our guest list is set at 200 right now, there's probably 10 friends I would rather invite than some family but I'm also okay with where it's...

Celia Milton, Nov 20, 2017 13 2,136
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I’m getting married tomorrow!
Chrissy, on November 19, 2017 at 3:25 PM

I can’t believe it’s finally here!! We had a long engagement but it sure snuck up on us fast! I’m feeling REALLY excited and ready to marry my best friend, I just feel overwhelmed with all the little...

Margarita, Nov 19, 2017 4 244
Claire
Buffet style reception dinner
Claire, on November 17, 2017 at 9:17 PM

I am doing a buffet style reception dinner and can't make up my mind if I want the food to be served by servers or do it serve yourself. I prefer it to be served by servers so I know for sure I have...

Bulbasaur, Nov 18, 2017 23 1,801
Oh So
Where do I put my registry info?!?!
Oh So, on February 2, 2011 at 3:35 PM

So I bought invitations that I will print out myself (I do this all the time so it's not what I'm worried about). I have the invitation and the response cards. The response cards come back to me so I...

Hannah, Nov 18, 2017 33 14,791
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Will Veteran's Day weekend affect our RSVP rate?
Olivia, on November 16, 2017 at 9:58 AM

Hi all! We are getting married Saturday, 11.10.18 in Minneapolis. I'm curious if any other Veteran's Day weekend brides can give me feedback on how the holiday weekend affected your RSVP rate. I've...

Trish, Nov 18, 2017 20 244
Sarah
Difficult Father/Daughter Dance
Sarah, on November 17, 2017 at 11:22 AM

So I have a difficult situation, because I'm trying to figure out a father/daughter dance with both my biological father, and stepfather (obviously at different times), except there's some issues: 1)...

Teresa, Nov 18, 2017 23 2,777
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