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Ester C
Question about wording for cocktail hour/reception
Ester C, on December 9, 2011 at 12:09 AM

So I have the invitation template done. Basic invitation wording. Below it I was adding wording to the effect of "Reception to follow at X location at 6 pm". But then I realized that is the time...

amy, Dec 21, 2017 7 17,716 1
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Do not want my sisters bf at wedding
Elise, on December 20, 2017 at 3:52 PM

We are having a small wedding abroad. 30 guests. My sister will be a bridesmaid however... her on again off again bf isn’t welcome. Here we go... theyve been together a year and recently broke up. He...

Chandell, Dec 21, 2017 11 2,054
Rachael
Wedding party standing during ceremony vs sitting
Rachael, on December 19, 2017 at 9:10 PM

I have been to a few weddings where the wedding party stands during the ceremony, where they sit, or just the maid of honor and best man stand. I am thinking of just having my maid of honor (sister)...

Rya, Dec 20, 2017 22 6,852
Leila
Tipping for a DW in Mexico
Leila, on October 6, 2017 at 4:04 PM

For any one who has been in/ had a DW wedding what is the protocol for tipping/ how much or what percentage? 1. Wedding coordinator whose service is included in the fee for the wedding ( she works for...

O, Dec 20, 2017 1 382
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Getting Married in a church service now, and Wedding celebration later
Kristina, on December 19, 2017 at 5:56 PM

Hi, I've got a situation similar to those I found online but not quite the same and so I'm stuck on how to go about continuing planning our wedding. What I've mostly found online are couples who have...

E&M, Dec 20, 2017 38 480
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Standing at the Ceremony
Emily, on December 19, 2017 at 1:07 AM

I have been looking into wedding venues and there is this beautiful garden near my house but it can only accommodate about 100 people with chairs and our unofficial list is about 150. Has anybody had...

AQuixoticBride, Dec 19, 2017 23 553
Amy
Check made out to wrong person...
Amy, on December 19, 2017 at 8:15 AM

So a legitimate question in the midst of all the kerfuffle.... I got a check from a distant relative yesterday. Awkward thing is it was made out to “Amy and FH’s First name FH’s Middle name”. I’m...

O, Dec 19, 2017 13 1,065
Katy
Honeymoon Fund HELP
Katy, on December 5, 2017 at 11:32 AM

I was at Hobby Lobby with my FMIL yesterday getting votives to paint and she found the stupid Honeymoon Fund box. She was so excited and wouldn't stop talking about how much she loved it and wants it...

Sarah, Dec 19, 2017 22 423
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Real or Fake?
Lauren, on December 18, 2017 at 5:48 PM

I’m looking into flowers and I can’t decide which to do! I need some pros and cons on real and fake flowers? Which ones cheaper? And which one seemed to work for you? Thanks ❤️

HowCo Industries, Dec 19, 2017 19 909
Porsha
People really ask for a plus one????!!!!!
Porsha, on June 19, 2014 at 8:54 AM

I have sent out my invites, and I can not believe people really ignore the fact the invitation is addressed to one person and that the RSVP is for one person. I have already received requests to add a...

VC, Dec 19, 2017 62 9,336 1
kbrands
Rehearsal Dinner Questions
kbrands, on December 14, 2017 at 6:15 PM

I have an idea of what I feel the right answer will be based off other WW posts but still just wanted to ask. For the rehearsal dinner - do you invite significant others of the bridal party? We have a...

Bride2B, Dec 19, 2017 19 883
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Should my mom throw an engagement party or wedding shower?
Amanda, on December 18, 2017 at 12:23 PM

Hey everyone! I live in Europe with my fiance, but for my half of invitees our wedding will basically be a destination wedding. So we're visiting my hometown and my mom wants to have a party/get...

Amanda, Dec 18, 2017 12 274
Heather
Hashtag help!!
Heather, on December 18, 2017 at 6:49 PM

Now that I understand the utility of the hashtag..... can someone please help me come up with one? I don't mind admitting I am less than my best in the arena. His name is Win Brooks and mine is...

Jacks, Dec 18, 2017 4 203
Martha
Bride and Groom taking both last names question
Martha, on December 17, 2017 at 8:03 PM

Quick background: FH and I are both planning changing our names to have my maiden name and his name. We want both our names to be First Name Middle Name My Maiden Name His Last Name. We're not sure if...

The OGest OG of All, Dec 18, 2017 13 2,442
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Rsvp deadline too early?
Private User, on December 14, 2017 at 11:40 AM

About 2/3 of our guest list is out of state. We also have a guest count we are trying to stay under but there are a few people we would like to invite if we have the space. Since people have to travel...

Brianna, Dec 18, 2017 64 3,907
CarrieLynn
Slideshows still cool?
CarrieLynn, on December 15, 2017 at 9:28 AM

FH and I have been together for 5 years. Our wedding is tomorrow and our rehearsal dinner is tonight. I put together a slideshow of pics to play on repeat during the rehearsal dinner. It's a pretty...

CarrieLynn, Dec 18, 2017 21 286
Maranda
Vows
Maranda, on December 13, 2017 at 11:53 AM

Question for those that plan to write their own vows or have already written them, how long were they? I want to be thorough but keep it short and sweet at the same time. Right now I'm at 231 words....

Emily, Dec 17, 2017 26 556
Margarita
Flower girl gifts?
Margarita, on December 17, 2017 at 6:41 PM

So I have my bridesmaid gifts, but is it customary to get the flower girls gifts? Thanks , any insight is appreciated

Heather, Dec 17, 2017 10 378
LaraLouM
Optional After Wedding Brunch
LaraLouM, on December 16, 2017 at 10:36 PM

Hey all, we are having a DW in Key West. Most of our guests will arrive the Thu before the Saturday PM wedding. We will be having a paid by us cocktail greet thu pm, rehearsal dinner fri pm and of...

DoggoMom, Dec 17, 2017 15 427
Karysa
Bridesmaid help????
Karysa, on December 17, 2017 at 3:13 PM

So right now I'm having a bit of a problem. One of my bridesmaids (?) has really bad anxiety and cancels a lot but I decided we were close enough that I would still ask her to be a bridesmaid and I...

FutureMrs.L, Dec 17, 2017 16 176 1
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