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Ester C
VIP July 2012

Question about wording for cocktail hour/reception

Ester C, on December 9, 2011 at 12:09 AM Posted in Etiquette and Advice 1 7

So I have the invitation template done. Basic invitation wording. Below it I was adding wording to the effect of "Reception to follow at X location at 6 pm". But then I realized that is the time dinner starts. What about cocktail hour?

Do I put cockatail hour at 5, dinner to follow at 6 or reception (meaning cocktail hr and dinner) at 5? How did you word it?

Am I making sense? Its been a long day and have very little steam left to turn the brain wheels and I think I'm confusing myself LOL. Please help!

7 Comments

Latest activity by amy, on December 21, 2017 at 9:01 AM
  • Jen H.
    Master October 2012
    Jen H. ·
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    Typically, you just mention the start time of the reception, not what time this or that starts. My invite just says "reception to follow" on the actual invite, and more detailed information is on my reception card. =)

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  • Cavan
    VIP January 2012
    Cavan ·
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    My invitation said "reception to follow" like Jennifer H. Then on a separate reception card you would put the time and location. Then you can put "Cocktails at 5pm, dinner to be served at 6pm", of course you would write it in a more formal way.

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  • Honey B.
    Master May 2012
    Honey B. ·
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    I did a separate Reception card because its in a different location.

    I put something like this:

    Please join us for an Adult Reception

    Following the Ceremony

    Cocktail Hour

    At four O’clock in the evening

    Dinner

    At five O’clock in the evening

    [inserted a decorative design here]

    Copeechan Fish and Game Club

    5649 Brook Street

    Schnecksville, PA 18078

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  • Ed Spencer
    Ed Spencer ·
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    Previous comment wouldn't post correctly... - doh! Don't use the greater/less than symbols.... Let's try this again:

    I'd use something like this:

    Adult cocktail and dinner reception to be held at (location) beginning at 5pm.

    Leaving off the time allows people to show up on time. If you put the time for dinner they won't show until 6.

    And what if there is an issue with the ovens and dinner is postponed until 6:30? Let the night unfold for your guests instead of giving them the itinerary and you'll find more people there when the celebration starts.

    (And I like Honey B's layout and wording for this... )

    Here's some other samples:

    http://www.invitationconsultants.com/samplewording.aspx?p_subcategory=111

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  • krisalicious
    Master April 2012
    krisalicious ·
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    Yep!

    We're just using the time that the doors open at our reception venue as the "reception time". We have a cocktail hour....but it might run an hour and 15 minutes?

    I wouldn't list the start time for dinner. Things can run a few minutes behind, depending on the caterer, the kitchen, how quickly your guests shuffle to their seats, etc. But that's just me!

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  • Julie B
    Master May 2012
    Julie B ·
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    Thanks for this post. I hadn't tought of a lot of the little details and time line--I am still working on invites and reception cards. Looks like they need a little tweaking thanks to you guys. :-)

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  • A
    Just Said Yes April 2018
    amy ·
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    I am having an afternoon wedding
    cocktail hr is at 12 pm
    should I put cocktail hr on the reception card?
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