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RG3
Emphasizing Guest Attire
RG3, on December 26, 2017 at 8:28 AM

My FH is from a small town thats very country - think every Texas sterotype, and thats it. We are getting married in Houston and most of his friends and family are planning on coming to the wedding....

Lisa, Dec 26, 2017 32 2,443
bina1015
Ordering a Maggie Sottero Dress, how long did it take to come in?
bina1015, on February 4, 2015 at 12:56 PM

I posted last week on how I found my dress but wasn't able to officially order it until next Tues, 02/10. I'm worried that I waited to long to order it and might get it really close to my wedding. For...

AugustBride, Dec 26, 2017 21 3,687
Sharon
Child Free Wedding: Many out of towners
Sharon, on December 26, 2017 at 4:27 AM

My wedding is 4 months away and going to be child free. My fiancé and I agreed that this is what we want. However, we have been visiting family for the holidays and realizing that many of those who...

starsinwaves, Dec 26, 2017 8 1,211
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Guests of honor
Shalyce, on December 23, 2017 at 11:33 PM

We are not able to have bridesmaids or groomsmen due to the amount of sisters I have vs who’d be on the groomsmen side. We still want to have the excitement of a wedding party but would call them...

2d Bride, Dec 25, 2017 12 2,498
Amber
3 States - How Many Bridal Showers?
Amber, on December 22, 2017 at 11:26 PM

My fiance and I are unsure what to do about a wedding shower. He and I live, and have lived, in central Florida for years. The tricky part is that his family lives in Georgia, while mine lives in...

MissDec1, Dec 24, 2017 8 420
Whippppss
reminders for RSVPs?
Whippppss, on December 20, 2017 at 12:49 PM

I haven't sent out invites yet, but I just wanted to know what to expect if it gets close to the RSVP date and I haven't heard anything from certain people. Do you reach out prior to the RSVP date...

Shanee and Brian, Dec 24, 2017 23 415
Deryn
Address Return Labels and Etiquette
Deryn, on December 22, 2017 at 5:09 PM

I know it’s more formal to write out addresses on invites/STDs, but did you all order personalized address labels or just write everything out? I’m ordering my STDs and going back and forth on...

Mrs.hays, Dec 24, 2017 19 1,106
GoodMOB
Would it be too rude to ask about a bridal shower?
GoodMOB, on December 22, 2017 at 4:30 PM

My daughter lives several states away, in the state when her fiance's family lives. I'm thinking/hoping that perhaps someone on their side of the family might host a bridal shower for my daughter. If...

MrsMtobe, Dec 23, 2017 17 1,721
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What do i do when family members don't get along?
Emily , on December 23, 2017 at 12:08 AM

My fiance's family is a bit divided at the moment with aunt and uncles not getting along with their children or nieces and nephews. Do I invite aunts and uncles out of respect for my future in laws...

bluevelvet, Dec 23, 2017 10 1,982
JustforLove
Where is the "correct" place to list where you are registered?
JustforLove, on November 11, 2009 at 6:04 PM

SO, i know it is bad etiquette to put where you are registered in your actual invitation... but then how are you supposed to let people know? i have heard on your web-site... but how do you let people...

Kimberly, Dec 23, 2017 17 6,857
charms88
How Many Hotel Room Blocks Should We Set Up? If at all?
charms88, on December 20, 2017 at 8:04 PM

We're have a smaller wedding, only around 67 people are being invited and probably around 45-60 will actually come. I am kind of concerned as the hotels I have spoken with in the area have indicated...

Brenda, Dec 23, 2017 10 424
dancedancedance
Surprise engagement party - what to do now?
dancedancedance, on December 22, 2017 at 8:09 PM

FH and I recently visited my FMIL in her hometown. She invited us over for dinner with her family, friends, and her new boyfriend’s family. Upon arrival, we realized this was a surprise engagement...

Orchids, Dec 22, 2017 8 1,538
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how to ask for print release from photographer for pictures
darcy, on December 22, 2017 at 10:11 AM

I was married about a year ago, and I've since been able to go to my photographer's website and view my gorgeous pictures. I love them all. However, when my husband and I were first looking for a...

Rachel Langerhans, Dec 22, 2017 9 2,143
AQuixoticBride
Is it chintzy to put information on the back of the invitation?
AQuixoticBride, on December 14, 2017 at 3:33 PM

I'm designing my invitations on Vistaprint and I'm wondering if it would be odd to put details card like information on the back of the main invitation. It's currently just a blank space. The ceremony...

MoweryMe, Dec 22, 2017 24 9,192
FutureMrsC18
Rings on the Wedding Day
FutureMrsC18, on December 20, 2017 at 11:48 AM

Okay ladies, what are all of you doing with your engagement ring for the wedding ceremony? I've heard of some locking it up and not wearing it at all that day, and I've also heard of some moving it to...

ABB102817, Dec 22, 2017 49 805
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Alcohol at my reception
AmberJ, on December 20, 2017 at 7:21 PM

Hello, so I’m having my wedding and reception both at my FHs church. The reception is technically is the school part of the church, so we can have alcohol. The problem is that the insurance is only...

Aly, Dec 22, 2017 14 800
Christine
No Father Walk/dance
Christine, on December 20, 2017 at 10:35 PM

Hey ladies, so I won't be having my father at the wedding due to family issues. I'm basically not having a lot of my family there (if any) - so my question is do I walk down the aisle by myself and do...

Christine, Dec 21, 2017 26 1,426
Kailee
Should i Invite the family i nanny for....
Kailee, on December 21, 2017 at 11:25 AM

I’m in need of some advice. Wondering if I should invite the family I nanny for 3 days a week to my wedding. I’ve worked for them over a year now and am close with the kids. I have been going back and...

Claudia, Dec 21, 2017 15 1,600
Melissa
Late night snack numbers?
Melissa, on December 21, 2017 at 1:16 PM

Hello everyone, We are thinking about our late night snack for our wedding / budgetting. Where I am, receptions are usually pretty long (ends at 1am). Dinner will be served at 6pm, and we are thinking...

O, Dec 21, 2017 14 7,813
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Cell phones at the wedding
William, on December 19, 2017 at 5:48 AM

Hey all, just wanted to get your all's thoughts on cell phones. Like I really don't want to go off on a guest who either tries to get the "perfect shot" while my bride is walking down the aisle. Nor...

jnsangel4life, Dec 21, 2017 19 930
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