Discussions from Etiquette and Advice

Hi everyone, I’m working on Thank You cards and was wondering whether or not to write them to my co-workers who didn’t give a gift. I had been told that this can be seen as gift grabby. I work in a...

I mean I've done it a few times now but I just feel so bad every time I have to tell somebody that we chose another company over them. It gives me anxiety like no other.

I have a question for brides who sent invitations to international guests. We are in the USA, but are inviting a few people who live in England. How did you stamp the RSVP card (or did you do...

My future husband is having a dilemma about whether to invite his work “friends”. He’s the boss of them, but we have interacted with them outside of work, and I like them and everything, but to help

I am a lesbian femme who will be wearing a suit in my wedding, and my bride is wearing a gown. I am not walking down the aisle and she is. My fiancee will have a MOH but no other bridesmaids. She...

Hi! I need some advice because I feel so guilty. Im a bridesmaid in my friend’s wedding. She was in my wedding. She flew to California for the weekend for my wedding. She did not go to my shower or...

We are doing our menu tasting with our venue next Thursday evening. Our venue is all inclusive with catering/bar/DOC etc. and our venue pricing includes service charge (gratuities per our DOC at the...

I always get some family members/ friends tell me to ditch the wedding and just spend the money on our honeymoon. I want a wedding mainly for the party aspect with my family and friends but I must...

I really want to have my first and middle name on my invitation instead of first and last since I will be changing my last name to my fh. But my fh doesn't have a middle name so I would put his first...

Have a question that maybe someone can answer! Are you supposed to give a gift when you ask the groomsmen and at the wedding (Same as the bridesmaids) OR do you just ask and then give them a gift day...

My fiance and I live together, can we just write our first names and address on save the date? No names? Or future Mr and Mrs. last name?

Example, when sending an invitation to John and Leah Smith, do I write Mr & Mrs. John Smith or is it okay to just write John and Leah Smith? Also, when writing our names do I write The Future Mr...

So I think I have narrowed it down to two. Honeyfund.com or depositagift.com. The only reason why I liked depositagift.com was because you could edit it to what you are really saving for. To be honest...

We are having an adults only Wedding in March of 2018. What is the best way to let our guests know that children are not on the guest list?

Hi! My fiance and I were invited to our first destination wedding in May. My fiance is a groomsman in this wedding. What is the expectation for giving a gift? We have spend a decent amount of money...

Are you allowed to register for wedding gifts if you are having a destination wedding? and, if so, how soon should you start your registry?

We have a few people who have rsvp'd but my gut is telling me they won't show. On one hand (and this is terrible) I don't care if they don't show. On the other, I'll feel bad for FH because they're...

Is there any rule of etiquette regarding the cost of the gift you give your FS on the day of? I have found something that I really think he'll enjoy, but it's in the $70-ish range. My heart...

Hi all! My mom threw me a surprise bridal shower when me and my FW went home to NY for the holidays. (Which was so sweet and totally unexpected!!!) I am doing the thank you notes now and I had a...

Anyone use a separate reception card in their invitations and have any pictures??? Our reception is at a different location, so I want to include a separate card.