Do you think its appropriate to have a wedding 2 hours from where most of the guests live? will everybody hate me? is it rude?? I live in more of an Urban city and we are definitely more rural people, so we want to be further north where there's more nature. The closest lodging from the place I'd like to get married is 30 minutes away, is that an ok drive for people who will be staying the night at the hotel??? Help please!!!