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Fiancé has two brothers to be best men, i have one sister. Help?

Vicky, on January 6, 2018 at 6:54 PM Posted in Etiquette and Advice 0 14

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My fiancé has two brothers he wants to be co-best men. I only have one sister, and I'd prefer her to be the only MOH because I'm afraid of hurting any of my bridesmaids' feelings if I don't pick them to be a co-MOH. For reference, I was a co-MOH in one of my future bridesmaids' weddings, and she wouldn't be the co-MOH.

Net-net is, is it okay if my fiancé has two co-best men and I only have one MOH?

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Latest activity by K.glass, on January 7, 2018 at 11:07 AM

Champion June 2018
muriel · on January 6, 2018 at 6:55 PM
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It's not a problem.
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Savvy June 2019
Addison · on January 6, 2018 at 7:10 PM
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Not a problem at all! Both of my sisters will be my MOH's. FH will only have 1 best man. Something to consider, since we will be off in numbers because of it we will be having his best man walk both of my sisters down the isle so it's obvious that both of my sisters are being honored as a MOH. You could have both of the best men walk on either side of your maid of honor. Just food for thought!
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Super May 2018
Summer987 · on January 6, 2018 at 7:18 PM
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It's not a problem.
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Devoted July 2018
Mrsp · on January 6, 2018 at 7:46 PM
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Not a problem at all.
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Devoted October 2018
Cristina · on January 6, 2018 at 7:46 PM
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I think it’s fine
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Savvy June 2019
junebride · on January 6, 2018 at 8:34 PM
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Ive been to wedding that had the same exact situation. It wasn’t an issue
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Master July 2018
Cuoghi · on January 6, 2018 at 9:12 PM
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Not a problem.
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Just Said Yes June 2022
Vicky · on January 6, 2018 at 9:20 PM
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This is a great idea, thanks!
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VIP October 2018
Sara P. · on January 6, 2018 at 9:29 PM
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Yes it's okay
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Champion November 2054
Jacks · on January 6, 2018 at 9:31 PM
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The people in your life are unlikely to be symmetrical. It's OK not to be.
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Expert May 2018
Emily · on January 6, 2018 at 9:44 PM
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This isn't an issue at all. Fh's brother is the Best man and I have a Maid and Man of honor. It can be uneven!
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Master March 2018
Orchids · on January 6, 2018 at 9:58 PM
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Not a problem at all! I'm just having my sister and BFF with me, my FH has a whole posse lol
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Katie · on January 6, 2018 at 10:04 PM
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I agree with Addison! I have more GM to BM and will have 2 GM walk down 1 BM to balance out and signify their roles!
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K.glass · on January 7, 2018 at 11:07 AM
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This is a similar situation I am having and I am glad to know others have done similar to what O am wanting to do. We r having my sister as the MOH and his brother as the BM, but I have 2 teenage daughters, and he has a teenage son. I am having my Ss walk both of his "sisters" down the aisle, and my sister thinks I should find someone to walk one of my daughters down and "drop them off" at the altar. But i think it would be really neat to have the 3 kids walk down together. This just makes me feel a lot better that other people have done something similar.
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