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Vicky
Just Said Yes June 2022

Fiancé has two brothers to be best men, i have one sister. Help?

Vicky, on January 6, 2018 at 6:54 PM Posted in Etiquette and Advice 0 14
My fiancé has two brothers he wants to be co-best men. I only have one sister, and I'd prefer her to be the only MOH because I'm afraid of hurting any of my bridesmaids' feelings if I don't pick them to be a co-MOH. For reference, I was a co-MOH in one of my future bridesmaids' weddings, and she wouldn't be the co-MOH.


Net-net is, is it okay if my fiancé has two co-best men and I only have one MOH?




14 Comments

Latest activity by K.glass, on January 7, 2018 at 11:07 AM
  • muriel
    Champion June 2018
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    It's not a problem.

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  • Addison
    Savvy June 2019
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    Not a problem at all! Both of my sisters will be my MOH's. FH will only have 1 best man. Something to consider, since we will be off in numbers because of it we will be having his best man walk both of my sisters down the isle so it's obvious that both of my sisters are being honored as a MOH. You could have both of the best men walk on either side of your maid of honor. Just food for thought!
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  • Summer987
    Super May 2018
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    It's not a problem.
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  • Mrsp
    Devoted July 2018
    Mrsp ·
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    Not a problem at all. Smiley smile
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  • Cristina
    Devoted October 2018
    Cristina ·
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    I think it’s fine
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  • junebride
    Savvy June 2019
    junebride ·
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    Ive been to wedding that had the same exact situation. It wasn’t an issue
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  • C
    Master July 2018
    Cuoghi ·
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    Not a problem.
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  • Vicky
    Just Said Yes June 2022
    Vicky ·
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    This is a great idea, thanks!
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  • Sara P.
    VIP October 2018
    Sara P. ·
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    Yes it's okay
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  • Jacks
    Rockstar November 2054
    Jacks ·
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    The people in your life are unlikely to be symmetrical. It's OK not to be.

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  • Emily
    Expert May 2018
    Emily ·
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    This isn't an issue at all. Fh's brother is the Best man and I have a Maid and Man of honor. It can be uneven!
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  • Orchids
    Master March 2018
    Orchids ·
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    Not a problem at all! I'm just having my sister and BFF with me, my FH has a whole posse lol

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  • Katie
    Savvy October 2018
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    I agree with Addison! I have more GM to BM and will have 2 GM walk down 1 BM to balance out and signify their roles!

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  • K
    Expert September 2019
    K.glass ·
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    This is a similar situation I am having and I am glad to know others have done similar to what O am wanting to do. We r having my sister as the MOH and his brother as the BM, but I have 2 teenage daughters, and he has a teenage son. I am having my Ss walk both of his "sisters" down the aisle, and my sister thinks I should find someone to walk one of my daughters down and "drop them off" at the altar. But i think it would be really neat to have the 3 kids walk down together. This just makes me feel a lot better that other people have done something similar.
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