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Cell phones at the wedding

William, on December 19, 2017 at 5:48 AM Posted in Etiquette and Advice 0 19
Hey all, just wanted to get your all's thoughts on cell phones. Like I really don't want to go off on a guest who either tries to get the "perfect shot" while my bride is walking down the aisle. Nor do I want to wish I had the power to force choke someone who didn't put their phone on silent. So how should I approach this issue so it isn't an issue come the big day?

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Latest activity by jnsangel4life, on December 21, 2017 at 1:15 PM
  • MiniMe
    Savvy September 2016
    MiniMe ·
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    Some people have a sign which politely asks guests to refrain from using their phones and/or taking photographs during the ceremony. My husband and I chose not to do this, but our officiant did make an announcement to that effect before our ceremony commenced.

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  • melanie
    Master August 2017
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    You could have your officiant make an announcement

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  • B
    Dedicated March 2018
    Baylee ·
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    This one was hard for me bc I didn't want my guests feeling like I was telling them what to do but at the same time I don't want phone's everywhere in my wedding pictures. Not to mention people don't have much common decency when it comes to their phones anymore so I will just put a sign that says (politely) to please turn their phones off during the ceremony. At the reception I will be a lot more lenient.
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  • C
    Just Said Yes November 2018
    Carleda ·
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    The host can ask all guest to either turn their phone off or put on silent while the ceremony is taking place.
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  • Mrs70
    Dedicated February 2018
    Mrs70 ·
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    We’re having an unplugged ceremony. We put this on our programs, and the officiant is making a reminder announcement before the ceremony starts.
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  • Jen
    Super May 2018
    Jen ·
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    We will be having our officiant make an announcement about no phones/cameras before the ceremony starts.

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  • Maleficent
    Super January 2018
    Maleficent ·
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    My officiant will be announcing no cell phone usage at the begining of the ceremony. I've also seen people put signs out.
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  • Sunshine
    Super January 2019
    Sunshine ·
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    Our officiant made a statement before the ceremony started to put phones on silent and turn off flash. That literally didn't help at all. I should have done an unplugged ceremony but whatever.

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  • Adriana
    Expert October 2017
    Adriana ·
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    Our officiant made an announcement. We had a sign by our programs, and we included it in our programs. Our parents also told family who we knew ALWAYS have their cameras with them. We had no issues and no one used a phone/camera.
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  • VC
    Super April 2018
    VC ·
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    Not gonna lie, I'm a little (lot) concerned with your force choke comment. Bit aggressive.

    Have your officiant make an announcement, and PLEASE don't kill anyone on your wedding day, for the love of god.


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  • LB
    Champion November 2016
    LB ·
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    Our officiant made an announcement and our program asked guests to refrain from using cell phones during the ceremony

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  • EngineerInLove
    VIP September 2018
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    This, also if you have a wedding website you can post it there. I do understand you don't want to tell your guests what they can and can't do, but at the same time that is literally what your photographer is for. I wouldn't tell them they can't use their phone at the reception because that's kind of overkill, but they can put it away for an hour during the ceremony.
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  • Stacey
    Super October 2018
    Stacey ·
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    Our officiant is making an announcement. He said it has worked 100% of the time in his experience and that most people ignore/don't notice the signs the couple puts out.

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  • MiniMe
    Savvy September 2016
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    It was clearly a joke. Star Wars reference.

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  • W
    Dedicated June 2020
    William ·
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    Not being aggressive. Just don't want to be going through the vows exchange or unity ceremony only for someone's phone to interrupt the whole thing. I won't kill the person, but I will give them the dirtiest look possible. But if someone upsets my bride, all bets are off and so are the gloves.
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  • Lex
    VIP September 2019
    Lex ·
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    Yeah we’re definitely making a sign, or announcement, or something because I went to a wedding last year and you couldn’t even see the bride with all the phones out.
    I’d be so pissed.
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  • O
    Master October 2017
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    We made an insert that went in our invitations that said "Welcome to our unplugged wedding", and then our officiant made an announcement before he started the ceremony. Not a single phone was out the entire day.
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  • Mrs.hays
    VIP April 2018
    Mrs.hays ·
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    We are putting a sign up that it is an unplugged ceremony.
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  • jnsangel4life
    Dedicated May 2018
    jnsangel4life ·
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    Just be straight forward. Please no phones during ceremony. Simple as that. It's your day not theirs so don't worry about hurting feelings. I'm going to allow it because I believe there are apps to share photos and I'd love everyone's shots.
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