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I went to a wedding June 6. I only knew the couple getting married and another couple. The other couple I knew from that is getting married tonight and the bride from last month will be a guest. Do...
Okay so, my invitations clearly stated the name of the person who is being invited and "guest" or the name of the other person if they were married or dating. For some reason people are still asking...
Hi everyone! So my fiance and I recently picked out our venue and now we are dealing with my parents having some judgements since it's not going to take place in a Catholic church. My parents are...
I just received a wedding invitation that says "no boxed gifts" at the bottom. What does that mean?
So we're giving these beautiful picture frames to each set of parents at the rehearsal dinner. They're already engraved with a personal message. So I'm looking for ideas and advice on what to put in...
If we do. what are some good ideas? also if you do do you exchange before or after the wedding?
Hi everyone, I have a bit of a dilemma and I was wondering if anyone had some suggestions. My FH is deaf and has some social anxiety, and he is not comfortable with the idea of having a first dance in...
My DJ strongly advised against opening the mic for speeches for everyone. Hes been a dj for 20+ years and says hes seen it get too long and sometimes inappropriate if you don't control who can do a...
We’ve been engaged since Nov 2015 and picked out date and booked it two years in advance (Oct 2016). All our VIPs were made aware of the date and had no problems. Fast forward to this past April as we...
6 months ago my fiancé and I decided to have 3 groomsman and 3 bridesmaids. At Christmas I asked my friends to be bridesmaids and made it public. Recently, my fiancé wanted to add a fourth. I decided...
So I'm inviting my MOH's family which consists of her parents, two younger brothers and her little sister. Her oldest younger brother is 17 and will be 18 jist days before the wedding. I know that...
Does it make a difference whether I address the wedding invitations by hand or use labels?
Hi everyone! My FH and I are planning to have our wedding on 5/20/2020, but we are planning to tie the knot next year on the same date. Im wondering if anyone else has done something like this and if...
Once our RSVPs are in, if the number of people coming is less than expected, so we back fill those seats? For example, a friend of mine, who I thought would bring a plus one - is coming solo. Is it...
For those of you adding meal selections and number of seats reserved on your RSVP cards would you care to share a pic? I am definitely adding meal selections (2) and a spot for dietary restrictions...
Hello Everyone, Ive had a lot going on lately but today Ive been catching up on wedding details and Im running into this problem and just need some helping ears to work it out. My Fiancé has a sister...
So my fiance has 3 groomsmen picked and I have 2 bridesmaids picked out already. I know who I want my 3rd bridesmaid to be, but I am scared that it will cause conflict with my fiance's family. I...
How do you determine who is hosting the wedding? I feel like TRADITIONALLY the brides parents pay and host. But I’m not sure that paying = hosting and given that paying for weddings has changed that...
A friend recently told me she is sending out Save the Date notifications for an engagement party. I may be totally out of it, but I've never heard of that. Am I missing something? Why wouldn't someone...
So, my wedding is 90 days away and STD’s were sent out. However, I’m considering postponing to next September. Any advice?