Discussions from Etiquette and Advice

I know the basics about not having friendors, cash bar and having good music. But what makes a wedding tacky?

Wth out of all the ppl to stress me out he handing it to me the worse... First he says he doent want to do a funny silly first dance so i say ok what about a simple 1st dance he says ok... Then the...

Has anyone used their wedding website at theknot.com for guests to RSVP? Did it work without kinks? Or have you used a wedding email address? Just looking for different ways to rsvp!

I'm a very private person. I use social media only to keep in touch with very long distance friends and family. I don't share every one of my pictures online. My wedding is special to me and I'd like...

I’ve been feeling a little stressed lately and just need to get a few things off my chest! So my FH lives an hour away from me working on a fire department that he absolutely loves. However he just...

FH and I both have large families so we’re trying to keep numbers down. Our invites were sent out TODAY (so nobody actually has one yet as they’re in transit) and we already had someone RSVP on our...

During our engagement party, my FH and I took the time to thank everyone for coming out and helping us make it happen. I would probably write one for everyone but I'm in the middle of a huge and...

I'm helping my daughter with how to express she would like no gifts. We know to not put anything like this on the invitations - but we were going to put something on the website. She and her fiance...

So my fiance's last name is Dunne (sounds the same as Dunn - silent "e") and I'm trying to create a hashtag but I'm struggling... my fiance's brother is getting married a week after us and they chose...

Hello, My fiance and I are having a private ceremony with immediate family only (16 people). My mother insisted we have a party the weekend after with the rest of the family and friends- which is...

Hello. I am a bride to be and I am having issues with my MOH. First of all I choose her because we had history together and I was always there for her during pregnancy to birth and everything in...

I love the idea of a brunch wedding, but my favorite venue does not let us start the ceremony until 1:00 pm. Would it be bad to serve brunch that late in the afternoon? We would have a mix of...

My fiancé and I are getting married August 25th. I was dead set against him seeing anything that I would be wearing on the day apart from my shoes (I have to break them in sometime lol). However, I'm...

Hey everyone, So we're having a destination wedding which means a lot of people won't be going that would normally go if we were getting married in town. My question is whether it is okay or not to...

Has anyone ever asked a groomsmen to not invite their girlfriend? This girl has called my little sister (the maid of honor) a b**ch at my house, lied to me about it and tried to make me feel like I...

So- I realize I had an early rsvp due date (wedding: 9-8-18) but I am having a destination wedding in Pennsylvania, so therefore felt it would be better to have an earlier date for those stragglers,...

A friend of mine is getting married the same day as me. She’s posted multiple statuses to her Facebook regarding RSVPs (even though not all of her friend list is invited) and her latest one states...

Hello, I was wondering what everyones thoughts were here. I had originally sent save the dates to the friend and boyfriend. They’ve since broken up, so do I still give her a general “+1” on the formal...

Ever since I was a girl, I've been one of those awkward, ugly girls that EVERYONE loved to bully - the boys would jokingly ask me if I'd go out with [insert another guy who is clearing sneering with...

To try and save money, we are thinking about sending out Save the Dates that will have our wedding website. We would like our guests to use the wedding website to RSVP. We do not want to send formal...