Discussions from Etiquette and Advice

DF will be asking his two best friends (J & T) to be groomsmen. J & T are brothers. J is married, and T isn’t but has been in a relationship for a few years. I’m not super close with J’s wife,...

Hi everyone! Drafting up a guest list and trying to figure out how to work out the whole plus one situation. My plan is to not give the option of plus one’s to anybody, but instead address the...

My mom have been getting into fights over whether to invite my cousins. I never speak with my cousins, not even on facebook. My mom thinks I should invite them because they are family. I can only...

So my reception venue will not pour shots. Which is fine, but how do I let people know? Lol watching four weddings and one of the chics said having a no shot sign was "tacky" haha. Anyone have any...

So I'm a little confused about the vendor table. From what I understand the only vendors I will have to feed are my videographer, photographer, and DJ. I don't have a problem with feeding them; I just...

I ordered way too many STD/invites, so i probably have at least 20-30 left over. i have some set aside for our memories box, but any ideas on what to do with the rest? makes me sad to just toss them. ...

Is it a must to have a limo or a fancy car?

Hi ladies! My aunt is officiating our wedding ceremony. I would like to get her a thank you gift of some sort. You ladies have any good ideas?? I’m stuck!

So we're planning on a smaller ceremony, but I still expect there might be some uninvited people who will show up. How do we go about sending uninvited folks a thank you - and is the general rule that...

I haven’t spoke a word to my father 2+ years. Long story short my parents got divorced almost 15 years ago he got remarried and only came around to say he “paid for this” I wrote him a letter to...

Has anyone ever been asked by someone, why they were not invited to the bridal shower, bachelorette party or wedding? I personally would never ask someone why I wasnt invited to something but I was...

I am trying to find a limo company but have no idea how they work. Does the limo pick up my fiance and the groomsmen first, bring them to the church and then pick the bride and bridesmaids after?...

So my maid of honor disappeared for about 2 weeks. She ignored all my messages and calls. We have been needing to get a solid date for the bachelorette party so people can start saving the date and...

I am a very sweaty person, I wear men’s deodorant because it’s strong enough to work and I still have to reapply. Last weekend I had gone to a wedding and I was sweating so bad my hair looked wet and...

Don't know wat to do STRESSED out my brother got himself involved with another woman month's back after being engaged with another now this girl seems nice in all but it's our day we don't want any...

Are there any etiquette rules for pre-wedding family activities? Is it acceptable to have separate family get togethers or are pre-wedding activities something that all wedding guests invited to?...

Hey WW family! So I got a little thing in the mail from Mr. Tux and it has like a list of stuff that the brides family pays for and what the Grooms family pays for. However, it is super outdated and...

Hey gals! My bachelorette party is coming up this weekend and I was wondering if brides typically give their girls gifts at this event? They've all been amazing and I was thinking about gifting them...

Alright ladies -- Who gave makeup bags to their bridesmaids and what did you put in them? I'm fill with mostly non-makeup items. My ladies are all pretty particular about the type of makeup they use,...