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Beginner October 2019

Too many bridesmaids, too few groomsmen

Adrionna, on August 4, 2018 at 4:58 PM Posted in Etiquette and Advice 0 8
So I need some advice... I've been planning my wedding for a few years now (finally got engaged, yay!) and I have a pretty good idea of exactly how I want things to go. I know that I want each bridesmaid and groomsmen to walk down the aisle together so right now we each have the same number of people. The problem is that to make that happen I had to eliminate two people from my side who I would really love to have in my wedding. How do I go about including them (I want them to stand next to me) and having them stand next to me? What would their title be? And is EIGHT too many??? (That includes MOH)

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Latest activity by Sara, on August 6, 2018 at 12:46 AM
  • Gen
    Champion June 2019
    Gen ·
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    Could you have 2 of your bridesmaids just walk with each other? It seems more important to have the people you want to be part of your day, rather than having the sides be even. And since it’s an even number, everyone would still have someone to walk with. IMO anything you decide to give the other 2 girls instead of being bridesmaids would seem like a consolation prize :/ I wouldn’t think making the sides even is worth potentially hurting a friend’s feelings or damaging a friendship
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    Beginner October 2019
    Adrionna ·
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    Wow I can’t belive I didn’t think of that! That’s such a simple solution and exactly what I will do. Thanks!
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  • Kiwibride
    Super November 2018
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    The sides don't need to be even, you can have two BMs walk together or have some of the GM walk with a BM on each arm. Anything else where they have a different title and don't walk just seems awkward and uncomfortable.

    Eight people is a lot to me but not to others, it's a personal decision. Just remember that its more cost for bouquets, hair and makeup if you're requiring it, food for getting ready, gifts, and four more people for the rehearsal dinner if they have SOs. If you're able to afford that and want them with you, do it! Just don't make them different from the rest of the BMs
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  • Gen
    Champion June 2019
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    Hahah no problem glad I could help!!
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  • F
    Super August 2018
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    I’ve also seen it where one groomsmen walks down with 2 bridesmaids. It looks fine and no one really thinks anything of it. You could just have 2 of the groomsmen each walk down with 2 BMs
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  • Vernell
    Devoted October 2018
    Vernell ·
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    My matron and maid will walk down with the best man and my jr groomsmen will walk down the alse with my two jr bridesmaid.
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  • A
    Beginner October 2019
    Adrionna ·
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    I like this too! One of my bridesmaids is married so I thought about making her a matron of honor
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  • Sara
    Dedicated March 2019
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    I went to a wedding with 3 groomsmen to about 7 or 8 bridesmaids. It groomsmen just appeared from somewhere. I really don't remember. Smiley laugh The bridesmaids just walked down the aisle by themselves.
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