Married groomsmen

I would not worry about asking either of them if you do not want them in your party. One of FH groomsmen is married, but I did not ask his wife to be in my wedding party. I have known her since high school, we are friends but we are not that close. Not as close as FH is to her husband!

3 of my FH's groomsmen are married. I'm friendly with their wives but we're not friends. None of them are bridesmaids. We are doing all of our pictures prior to the ceremony, so the wives will attend the ceremony and once the ceremony ends, their husbands will be with them the rest of the night. Nothing awkward about it.

No, no, no... I would not recommend picking bridesmaids based upon the fact that they're spouses of those already asked to be in the wedding party. That is a potential recipe for disaster. Your bridesmaids should be reserved for those who are closest and most loving to you.

All of my bridesmaids are married, none of their spouses are in the wedding party.

Our Best Man is married, and his wife might not be able to even come to the wedding.

Neither of them should be asked.

You are setting yourself up for a disaster if you ask people you aren't close with to be in your bridal party.

Ask who you want to ask. My FH has been in plenty of his friends weddings that I have not been in. Its really not a big deal and if their significant others talk to each other then it'll be fine.

It's up to you in the end: but it's a "No" from me. I would not include anyone in my party that I am not close with or have a good friendship with. You will want close people on your side during this big day

I wouldn't ask them. You should ask someone to be in your bridal party because you can't imagine getting married without them next to you, not because you don't want them to feel left out or feel obligated.

I wouldn't ask them either. FH has two Gm whose wives are in the circle but they are not BM's and I have two BM's whose husbands are also in our large circle of friends but they are not GM's. Pick who you could not imagine your day without them standing beside you, not based on couples. You will regret it.

I wouldn't ask her if you aren't super close. I didn't ask any of the groomsmen's girlfriends or wives to be bridesmaids. They will obviously be invited to the rehearsal dinner & wedding, and be seated with their significant others but I don't want to make them bridesmaids since we aren't super close.

I wouldn't ask either one, especially if you're not close with them.

Three of my BM and two of his GM were married, and we didn't ask any of their spouses to be in the wedding party. And, we are kind of close to many of them.

Only ask your nearest and dearest. If you start asking people out of obligation, you'll run into trouble.

don't worry about including these girls. They will still be invited to the rehearsal dinner and should be seated with their SOs during dinner, so they'll be fine.