Discussions from Etiquette and Advice

Ever since I was a girl, I've been one of those awkward, ugly girls that EVERYONE loved to bully - the boys would jokingly ask me if I'd go out with [insert another guy who is clearing sneering with...

To try and save money, we are thinking about sending out Save the Dates that will have our wedding website. We would like our guests to use the wedding website to RSVP. We do not want to send formal...

Alright ww family, I am going to be completely real with you. I know this discussion about asking for cash, for money for a honeymoon has always been a hot topic with much discussion and much...

I’m starting the process of sending out invites. My FH and I already have a house together. How should I address the rsvps? Do I just put my name since I’m the manning the rsvp response? Or do I put...

I am getting ready to start getting my invitations ready to be sent. Should we include a slip for those invited to the rehearsal dinner or the brunch we will be having the morning after? If not, when...

I feel like I live on this forum these days, who knew invitations could be so tricky?! If your ceremony and reception are at the same venue are you putting the full address of the venue on the...

Trying to see how crazy I am for considering having my older (and only) sister as a bridesmaid but not the MOH. We are OK with each other, but we drifted apart years ago and now we're just different...

Our ceremony and reception are taking place in the same venue (hotel). When we booked it we were given several times to choose from for the ceremony. We chose 4:00 but didn't realize until it was much...

I need some advice here... my future husbands sister is a bit challenging. She is the same age as myself but there is a huge maturity difference there. She likes to find small things to debate over...

Hi Ladies... So my wedding is this upcoming Friday and I am going back and forth with myself on how my Dad and Stepdad can share the role of walking me down the aisle. I originally was just going to...

Hello! my boyfriend and i have been trying to figure out a place to buy an engagement ring, that's good quality at a reasonable price. i'm 100% sure i want either a round or oval cut with a micropave...

So, my mom has been bugging me about a song to dance to with her at my wedding on top of the father/daughter dance. Background: My parents divorced when I was two, and like most outcomes of divorce,...

Good Morning Everyone!!! I am beyond frustrated and not sure how to handle the situation. My wedding is August 11th down in Florida, which means half of our guests are traveling for the wedding. I...

Asking for a friend... No, in all seriousness. We are having a full open bar based on consumption. I expect to pay about $4,000 with gratuity considering it's premium liquors and we're in MA...

Hello, I have a touchy question, One of my best friends since childhood (My mom;s best friend's son) is gay, I dont mind this at all btw. They moved away years ago and I barely spend time with him so...

I want to allow my parents and future in laws to send out a few invitations (to family or close family friends) but what is a good number. I'm asking because I'm worried that my mother in law to be...

My mom is helping pay for most of the wedding, I do feel like I should give her some say but my whole DJ list?! My mom asked to see my DJ list bc she wanted to know if she knew any of the songs. She...

My fiancé and I have been together for almost 9 years so we share most of the same friends. Most of those friends are guys. So he is getting the majority of our guy friends to be his groomsman. I am...

Hi! for my upcoming August wedding I am looking at 125 attendees, many of which are coupled up. My question is on wedding favors - I've been to enough weddings at this point to see that many favors go...

We have a decent number of young children (ages 1-9) coming to our wedding. Our venue does a pasta kids meal for kids 12 and under. How do I put that on the invitation/RSVP card that children 12 and...