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Just Said Yes September 2018

Couple broke up after save the dates were sent

Colette, on July 15, 2018 at 6:50 PM Posted in Etiquette and Advice 0 8
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Hello,

I was wondering what everyones thoughts were here. I had originally sent save the dates to the friend and boyfriend. They’ve since broken up, so do I still give her a general “+1” on the formal invitation, or do I just invite her? Also, she lives far away so I don’t know if it’s proper etiquette to give her a +1 anyways. Would love your advice! Thanks!

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Latest activity by MrsD, on July 16, 2018 at 1:34 PM
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    Beginner July 2018
    Christina ·
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    Give a plus one
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  • Going to the chapel
    Master July 2017
    Going to the chapel ·
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    You don't have to give her a plus one at this point. But......since she is traveling, it would be a wonderful gesture to let her bring a friend through a plus one.

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    Savvy November 2018
    Taylor ·
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    I would still give her a plus one. One of my friends recently invited me to a wedding out of town and did not give me a plus one which is actually the reason I’m not attending. No one wants to go to an out of town wedding alone.
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  • Tara
    Master September 2018
    Tara ·
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    Especially since she lives far and has to travel id giver her a plus one. Even if she brings a family member. Going to a wedding alon after a breakuo would suck
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  • Colleen
    Master September 2019
    Colleen ·
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    We are giving all our guest that are out of town and 18 and older a plus 1. All local guest in high school or older get a plus 1.
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  • Kristen328
    Super September 2018
    Kristen328 ·
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    Same thing happened with one of my OOT guests and I still extended a +1
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  • Laura
    Devoted August 2018
    Laura ·
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    Ditto. I agree. She can invite who desires at this stage.
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  • MrsD
    Legend July 2019
    MrsD ·
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    I would just address the invite to her. If you have room for the plus one, great! If not, not a big deal. We are only giving plus 1s to people with significant others.

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