FH and I are currently long distance until our wedding in September. He lives in FL and I live in MD which is where our wedding will be as well as my showers. We've had issues in the past with packages getting shipped to our apartment complex in FL so we've set up our registry's shipping address as his parents house about 25 minutes from the apartment. Currently, the remainder of my personal things will fit in my car post-wedding for the move and we would really like to avoid renting a truck/pod for gifts.
My question is: what is a polite way of saying on our registry pages that we would prefer for gifts to be sent to the supplied shipping address as opposed to being presented at the wedding without appearing gift grabby? Am I overthinking it?