Discussions from Etiquette and Advice

Hi all, I am a bride but this is about being in another wedding. I am a bridesmaid in my cousins wedding for this upcoming summer. We used to be close but not for the past few years so I was a bit...

So my FH goes by a nickname, Zae. His real name is José but he hates it. So much so that he wanted to legally change his name to Zae but ultimately I convinced him not to because of his family. He is...

Hi. My FH and I scheduled a courthouse ceremony at the end of April. Originally, we planned to only invite two people as witnesses (his youngest sister and my mother). I didn't think it was necessary...

Hello everyone! Have you ever met someone (friend-wise) and just clicked? There was no awkward getting to know you stage or anything like that? I have pretty recently (within the last year) become...

My wedding is 40 days away and pretty much everyone has rsvp. However my family like aunt and cousin have been calling me stating they won’t be coming due to me not allowing my mom bring her boyfriend...

12 weeks had to cancel 3 days prior but to an out state wedding due to a condition causing extreme morning sickness (lasting all day long) and high blood pressure and being suggested to take it easy...

I recently had a family friend message me say that her and her boyfriend will be attending my wedding. The issue is that he was never invited. Her mum asked if she could bring him and we simply said...

Hello! So my fiance and I are in a little bit of a bind on how to break the news to some family members that they aren't invited to our wedding. The situation is a challenge because my fiance comes...

Hey guys, so I know im not really supposed to be involved with planning my bridal shower but I at least wanted to make sure it was a nice place they picked out. But now, who pays for it? Is it just up...

I am doing online RSVP; our wedding is 7/31/22. I am trying to think of when I should put a deadline. Any suggestions?

I haven't seen recent posts about hand cancelling. Is it worth it? I know it's always a possibility that an invitation can be damaged, but short of that happening, do guests care? If it gets damaged I...

I have been at my job for 9 years and I am very close to a lot of my coworkers. I am inviting everyone on my team and just about everyone in our office. (total of 27 people) - however, I am debating...

Hello Everyone! (Groom Here) 2 Questions. My Parents are divorced and have been since the late 1990's. My mom raised me as a single mother for a very long time, teaching me everything my dad should...

So I am debating very hard about whether or not to do hotel blockings. My FH and I are getting married and having the reception in the same location, and it’s about 15 minutes from our house. However,...

Hello all! I'm getting married on November 18, 2023 and am already having a bit of an issue with a bridesmaid and I'm really not sure what to do. For background I've known this friend for well over...

Is it rude to add ‘Please do not RSVP if you do not plan to attend’ on the wedding website? In a perfect world people who do plan to attend will RSVP and I understand if things change and something...

I literally hadn't thought about this until my wedding binder mentioned that you don't need to put postage for RSVP's that will be mailed back to you from out of the country, so..... do I need to put...

Hello WW. I sent out save the dates in January for our July wedding. Invitations will go out in May. A couple of people have texted me that they will not be able to make it. Should I send invitations...

Hi brides! So recently I was discussing pictures and the overall general timeline of our wedding and the topic of golden hour photos came up. I assumed this was something only the bride and groom did...