Discussions from Etiquette and Advice

Is it ok to have a letterpresses invitation and RSVP card but include a printed details card as long as all is in the same font styles and color schemes?

We have a to mail a check to our planners for a tip because we had to use the cash reserved for their tip on the wedding day for makeup instead because (surprise!) they wouldn't take a credit card. So...

I have been trying to think of the best way to handle when invited guests do not rsvp and last minute say they can make it? I really don’t want to allow them to come with almost no warning or...

Need opinions: My Bff’s wedding was postponed during the pandemic and I am a bridesmaid She ultimately decided to split her events up. She held a smaller religious ceremony this past fall (bridesmaids...

I wrote thank you notes to my bridesmaids (For being in the Wedding and all their help with everything) and gave them to them on my wedding day. I ended up receiving gifts from each of them that we...

I'm SO excited to essentially be eloping (having a small ceremony with our immediate families) with my FH! It suits us so well to have an intimate ceremony and we can't wait. We've been together for...

Hey everyone, what is a good way to say that we do not want invited guests to share information about our wedding on social media? I thought that was a given thing and I didn't think I needed to...

My parents and extended family are quite traditional, and I'm having issues deciding how to word the invitation and the addressing. My sister got married a couple years ago, and her initiation said...

Is it common or expected to send your entire digital wedding album that the photographer sends you to the entire guest list? I have never heard of that and my MIL has forwarded it to everyone. I am...

Question - we have a friend of the family who is willing to officiant our wedding. I asked him and he was SUPER excited. He did the online certification to get ordained in which be paid $8 for...

Hi all! I don't have close friends in town and my close friends from school live back home and so we don't keep in touch as much as I would like (busy lives). I'm kinda scared to ask anyone to be a...

I was invited to a wedding and asked the bride if I could bring X guy as my date and she said no. Can the bride really pick and choose who is your plus 1? I think being in the bridal party it is nice...

My fiancé and I decided to have our small wedding ceremony and reception at a vacation home rental. The home rental we picked is dog friendly and we intended to bring ours. My dad and stepmom have...

We are getting married September 2023 and I am trying to figure out the best timing to send out save the dates. I was thinking 8-9 months before, but that puts it right around the holiday season when...

Hey ladies! My youngest sister recently got engaged (i told her to download this app) however, she has a question about etiquette. She has invited our mother and her future mother in law to a painting...

My MOH recently informed me that she's terrified of public speaking but will do whatever I want her to do. What are alternatives to having her do a toast at the reception? I was thinking the rehearsal...

I am a 35 F getting married for the second time in Feb. my first marriage was a complete disaster that happed over 13 years ago and I’m really viewing this wedding as the first and last real time I’m...

So, my God-Sister told me that she was going to be in my wedding, however, I never asked her to be in the wedding and I don't plan on it. I know her feelings will be hurt but I have 6 other ladies in...

Just wanted to get some opinions here So I'm having a destination wedding in Jackson hole this September. I've already sent out my invites. I wanted an intimate weekend with close friends and family...

Hello beautiful ladies My wedding day is coming soon and I would like to be aware of any bad or inconvenient situation that we might go Through the wedding day Not saying that something is going to...