Hi there,
I’m new here and stumbled upon this site so I wanted to ask a question about bachelorette party etiquette. Every bachelorette party I’ve been too I haven’t had to pay for anything, besides the hotel room, because I wasn’t part of the bridal party.
Now, a good friend of mine is eloping but her family wanted to throw her a bachelorette party. Everyone in attendance was to pay the amount back to the family member who planned the event as she pre-paid for everyone. I had to pull out due to falling extremely sick and then suddenly other girls started pulling out for other reasons. So the family member of the bride was requesting that those who dropped out still pay her back.
Is this normal? I get her not wanting to be out of money but the entire way this was handled was so wrong to me and upsetting. Am I wrong to be mad? Is everyone in this situation wrong? Right? Help?!!
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