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Chris
Tip etiquette
Chris, on May 14, 2022 at 5:54 PM

Tip etiquette if the officiant fee is included in the all inclusive package. Do we tip out the DJ, bartender (he'll have a tip jar), servers etc and how much?

Chris, May 14, 2022 6 181
Alexis
Elopement
Alexis, on May 4, 2022 at 10:49 AM

My fiancé & I decided we're going to elope. However, I'd still like to send gifts to my close friends & family who I would've selected to be in our wedding had we were planning a traditional...

Alexis, May 14, 2022 4 578
Shannon
Bachelorette impositions
Shannon, on May 13, 2022 at 10:41 AM

Hi all. I’m having my bachelorette next month on a Saturday evening. We are going to dinner and then to see a band and have cocktails. Everyone is meeting at my house and departing from there. Most of...

Shannon, May 13, 2022 8 650
Malia
How soon do you start chasing people down for Rsvps?
Malia, on May 10, 2022 at 6:17 PM

Hey, y'all! Today is our RSVP deadline, and we're still waiting on responses from 55 households (134 guests). We invited 250 (114 households), and invitations went out a month ago. We have to give our...

Michelle, May 11, 2022 15 936
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Bridal party
Ashley, on May 9, 2022 at 9:32 PM

My fiancé wants a small bridal party so we have decided to keep the bridal party to just family. I have four other best friends that I want to be involved in everything else (getting ready, wearing...

Ashley, May 10, 2022 5 172
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Two wedding bands
Tramyna, on January 13, 2017 at 12:31 AM

Hi fellow brides...My fiancé and I have chosen to get two wedding bands to compliment my engagement ring. One for each side. Is there anyone else who is doing the same? And if you are or have, how do...

Kvharrell, May 10, 2022 8 4,120
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Parent Gifts
Grace, on May 9, 2022 at 2:11 PM

Looking for some advice on parent gifts! I know traditionally the gifts are given to the two sets of parents but I’m not sure what to do in our situation. FH’s parents are divorced. His dad is...

Erin, May 10, 2022 9 548
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Not a bridesmaid
RY, on March 22, 2022 at 4:26 PM

I have read a few forms on this as I try to work through my pain, and decided to make my own post. A good friend of mine is getting married, we have been friends since HS so going on 24 years now....

Chereeandderrick2022, May 10, 2022 12 1,672
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Wording of Parents on Invitation
Emily, on May 9, 2022 at 12:47 PM

We are having a black-tie option wedding, and we are struggling with the wording for the invites. I think the traditional way is misogynistic, and I wanted to include our moms names. We have the names...

Taylor, May 9, 2022 11 641 1
Nichole
Thank you card question.
Nichole, on May 9, 2022 at 4:05 PM

We just got our first gift from our registry in the mail today (guests have the option to ship it directly to our house). That is super exciting! My question is our wedding isn't until September 24,...

Erin, May 9, 2022 9 516
Happy2b MRS.Henderson
RSVP or R.S.V.P
Happy2b MRS.Henderson, on February 27, 2014 at 9:26 AM

Hi ladies what is your take on how to place the rsvp with or without the periods. I am doing my rsvp's and for some reason it does not look right without the periods. Help please is it your own...

Joey, May 9, 2022 8 11,614
Shanna
Best way to handle kids as guests?
Shanna, on May 5, 2022 at 11:31 AM

We are finalizing our guest list (again) and I'm running into a dilemma around inviting whole families as guests. Our venue holds 150. We wanted to keep at 125, but we're around 140 and still not...

Michelle, May 8, 2022 9 822
Private User
Room Block
Private User, on May 5, 2022 at 9:26 PM

Has anyone had experience with NOT getting a room block? I’m having some trouble getting a room block because of different events going on around the date of my wedding.. there are plenty of rooms...

Michelle, May 8, 2022 13 775
Rsac23
Swapping invited plus one for random person
Rsac23, on May 7, 2022 at 9:10 AM

My fiancé and I have gone over our guest list count that fit our budget by almost 30 people. We only gave plus ones to those in long-term/serious relationships and/or couples who have kids together....

Gillian, May 8, 2022 4 1,278
Irene
Is it weird to ask new friend to be a bridesmaid?
Irene, on March 8, 2022 at 8:32 PM

I met this friend a year ago on a job and we got really close around six months ago. We'll occasionally work on jobs together (commercial shoots), but have seen each almost every other week outside of...

Irene, May 8, 2022 9 2,747
Jasmine S.
Cutting the cake 30 mins before dessert is served - will guests leave super early?
Jasmine S., on May 6, 2022 at 10:51 AM

Hi all. We just went over our timeline with the caterer and they recommended we do our cake cutting right at the end of dinner, about 30 minutes before dessert is actually served to the guests. (The...

Michelle, May 8, 2022 4 776
Sophie
Including Mr and Mrs on invitation envelopes or no?
Sophie, on March 8, 2022 at 7:00 PM

When I was originally getting married 2 years ago I wrote Mr. and Mrs. on my invitations, but now 2 years later I am not so sure. Our wedding isn’t informal but it certainly isn’t formal - backyard...

Whitney, May 8, 2022 14 2,808
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Uninvite guests who haven't Rsvp'd because our budget is tight??
Danielle, on May 1, 2022 at 3:44 PM

Our wedding is coming up in 60 days and due to unfortunate events our budget is really tight. I'm worried about even being able to put this wedding off at this point. Here's my dilemma. We invited...

H, May 7, 2022 21 1,887
Carmen222
Church wedding and outdoor ceremony too much?
Carmen222, on March 16, 2022 at 8:31 AM

We have booked a lovely reception location with a gorgeous outdoor ceremony site but as a catholic the priest has to do the service inside the church. Has anyone done both? The church would hold the...

Sky, May 7, 2022 6 732
Petrie_Ja
Is 25 a good age to get engaged?
Petrie_Ja, on March 25, 2022 at 5:26 AM

My boyfriend recently proposed to me, we have been dating for a year, we are both 25 years old,He loves me so much, but I am not sure if he is my true love,Is 25 years old too early?

Sky, May 7, 2022 15 1,356
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