I was going to type out our entire friendship “story” but long story short we’ve been friends almost 20 years. Our lives have gone in diff directions at times due to some heavy life things but we’d always eventually find our way back and continue where we left off. ( she’s been to my fathers funeral, my grandmas, came to visit in other state when my son was born w unexpected brain injury, came to hospital the day after I gave birth to my second born , all intimate things in my opinion, things I wouldn’t have Just have any friend be involved in) Ive always considered her my best friend through it all even the times we were more distant , and she has always done the same. To me and publicly (best friend posts about me, pics of my kids & being god mom etc)
Well she’s getting married and I was not chosen to be a bridesmaid. Feelings are hurt & confused. How do I handle this? I’m interested in hearing from brides view. Should I bring this up ? Not in a way to change her mind or even cause an issue but a why? I’m curious to have an answer. It’s not the “only family” reason or “small party”
She has 6 bridesmaid. Most college friends. From my point of view currently I’m feeling like this says a lot of our friendship. I was invited to wedding but that is all (not bachelor party bridal Party) Can I ask her why? How do I ask why? I feel like 20 years of friendship and so many important life moments we’ve experienced together , I guess I feel I want to know why.
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