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OregonEmily
Smile.Amazon.com
OregonEmily, on March 7, 2014 at 3:25 PM

This is an awesome site that is EXACTLY the same as amazon. The only difference is if you purchase through smile.amazon.com, they donate 0.5% of your total cost to a charity of your choice. I, along...

mscountry, Mar 7, 2014 5 187
Samantha
Cutting the Cake/Bouqet & Garter Toss - Timeline question!
Samantha, on May 1, 2013 at 10:29 AM

When is the best time to do this? Here is our timeline as provided by our venue: 5:30-6:30 Cocktail Hour 6:30-6:45 Introductions 6:45 Toast 6:45-7:30 Dinner 7:30 First Dance 8:30 Cake Cutting/Garter &...

Lora, Mar 7, 2014 15 1,484
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military vow renewal etiquette question help!!!
genevieve, on March 6, 2014 at 11:02 PM

I got married in 2009 before I deployed overseas so we only had a quick wedding because we were only given 3 weeks notice of when I was leaving so I wasnt able to have a big wedding like I dreamed of...

Arizona Bride, Mar 7, 2014 13 328
Amber
Door Prizes
Amber, on March 7, 2014 at 1:42 PM

I read on a blog about a bride doing door prize drawings at her reception. Is that weird? I though it kinda sounded like something fun for the guests to look forward to. Yes or no?

LadyMonk, Mar 7, 2014 7 1,821
Maureen
"8 of the snarkiest, most creative wedding RSVP cards we've ever seen"
Maureen, on March 7, 2014 at 11:07 AM

I just read these creative wedding RSVP cards. http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2014/03/04/funny-wedding-rsvps_n_4898021.html You ever seen any in person? Any one dare to do use those in article or...

ben4514, Mar 7, 2014 4 235
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Do you feel obligated to invite anyone?
Tina, on March 5, 2014 at 2:41 AM

I know I shouldn't feel obligated to invite anyone but there are groups of friends that I hang out with. In each group, there's one or 2 that I barely talk with. They are more like friends of friends....

Jemma, Mar 7, 2014 13 1,010
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Cutting down guest list without offending friends
Chi, on March 6, 2014 at 5:45 PM

Hey everyone I'm hoping to get some feedback My fiance and I are working on finalizing our venue and the guest list. We really need to keep it small (80ish) because we're having a city wedding and are...

TexasBeThyFrontier, Mar 6, 2014 10 1,417
Madison
Friend who I wish I had asked to be a bridesmaid- what to do?
Madison, on March 6, 2014 at 4:08 PM

So, when I first got engaged, I had a really, really hard time picking bridesmaids. There are a lot of girls I cared a lot about. Eventually, I made my decision, though, and stuck with it. My roommate...

LA girl, Mar 6, 2014 11 1,016
ChewBekka
Bachelorette Party. Where did/are you go(ing)?
ChewBekka, on March 4, 2014 at 12:42 PM

My younger sister is my MOH and she is the only person in my bridal party that doesn't have a full time job with benefits. She is freaking out about planning the bachelorette party. I tried taking...

Nina, Mar 6, 2014 31 466
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$300 YEAH Right!!!!
Hibrides123!!, on March 6, 2014 at 8:55 AM

Hi ladies, I'm in a wedding in June and the MOH just sent a group message asking for $300 for the bridal shower. There are a total of 7 bridesmaids and she is giving $700 for the event....

Erin, Mar 6, 2014 32 918
MissMadeline
Planning your own bachelor(ette) party?
MissMadeline, on March 6, 2014 at 9:27 AM

One of my friends and bridesmaids told me a while ago that she wanted to plan my bachelorette party. When we talked about it, we thought it would be fun to include Nick and the men too. We didn't have...

Anonymous, Mar 6, 2014 10 433
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Postponed wedding... want to downsize new wedding considerable
Private User, on March 5, 2014 at 1:47 PM

My daughter and fiance were to be married May 3rd of this year, the invites have been sent out and plans have all be made. For various reasons they have decided they are not quite ready to be married...

Tamika, Mar 5, 2014 10 246
Brooke Lilly Le Toler
Apology letter?
Brooke Lilly Le Toler, on March 5, 2014 at 11:44 AM

I expected to have my wedding invitations ready by Valentines Day, and they were. All we had to do was seal them and mail them. Unfortunately, my father had a heart attack and died that day. I just...

KristenMeowza, Mar 5, 2014 15 1,083
Andrea
Corsage Etiquette
Andrea, on March 3, 2014 at 10:11 PM

Making arrangements with my florist and realized that I completely forgot about the corsages for the special ladies in the family! How are you ladies handling this? Where are you drawing the line, or...

Genevieve, Mar 5, 2014 40 1,233
Laura M
Cute way to ask mom to ALSO walk me down the aisle
Laura M, on March 4, 2014 at 2:51 PM

I've decided that I want both parents to walk me down the aisle. My mom was the one who raised me and I think she deserves to just as much as my dad, if not more. Any ideas?

Jessica, Mar 4, 2014 2 484
MrsOHara
Out of state wedding.
MrsOHara, on March 2, 2014 at 11:12 AM

Ok so my husband and I are already legally married however we are doing our big ceremony in October. I for him decided to do it in the state where his family is from so that they could come. I...

Mrs.Matthews, Mar 3, 2014 22 590
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Marriage First... Wedding Later
Sheila, on March 3, 2014 at 9:38 AM

Hi I'm a newlywed who married her high school sweetheart on our 11 year anniversary. We were both 25 working full time, going to school and living on our own. We have had tough few years financially....

Ab, Mar 3, 2014 27 97
Shaquaya
Gifts for parents. Do you buy them a gift even if they didn't help pay for anything?
Shaquaya, on February 21, 2014 at 1:29 PM

My parents aren't helping to pay for anything. I may even be paying for my father's tux (don't ask). My FH's mother did buy a few extra vases for the centerpieces but other than that FH & I have paid...

Rubi, Mar 3, 2014 15 1,077
A&G
What type of salad?
A&G, on March 3, 2014 at 1:45 PM

So the venue where we are having dinner has the option of a ceaser salad or a regular salad with a balsamic vinaigrette dressing. Personally I would want to go with ceaser salad. My FH and I prefer it...

LadyMonk, Mar 3, 2014 12 2,680
Aftan
Negligee or Dishes?????
Aftan, on March 2, 2014 at 1:52 AM

I have always thought that when you go to a bridal shower that the guests usually bought gifts (if they brought one) off of the registry. I was recently told that the bridal shower is for guests to...

serenity523, Mar 2, 2014 11 299
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