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KayDwitWill
Invitation wording advice
KayDwitWill, on March 20, 2014 at 8:17 AM

Below is the wording for our invitation and I have a few questions on some things. I would like for it to be more informal than formal. It would give us great pleasure to have you join us for our...

Nancy Taussig, Mar 20, 2014 8 1,608
Natasha
Buffet etiquette?
Natasha, on April 7, 2010 at 10:35 PM

We're doing a buffet at our wedding, but I have no idea how best to work this. Do we have the plates at their tables and they carry them up to get the food or should the plates be waiting at the...

kimberly, Mar 20, 2014 20 3,688
Jaimie
Anyone else's parents using your wedding as a means to show off
Jaimie, on March 18, 2014 at 3:35 PM

My parents are paying for the reception, which of course is the biggest cost for our wedding. I have pretty much no say in who gets invited, and it's no cost to me to add additional people. Still I...

pittielvr, Mar 19, 2014 29 60
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Wedding Program help....
Private User, on March 19, 2014 at 12:26 PM

Hi - trying to put together the program for my wedding... how do i list my sisters fiance who is a groomsmen on the program - note they have been engaged for almost 2 years and they do not have a date...

Shaquaya, Mar 19, 2014 16 433
NLeo
1 per family favors
NLeo, on March 18, 2014 at 9:42 PM

We are thinking of doing spice jars as favors but I'm wondering how to set them out if they are one per family. We are having long banquet tables with no assigned seating. Do I: A) Set one at every...

Berenice, Mar 19, 2014 8 493
C&E2014
What's the safest way to do candles for an outdoor wedding with children?
C&E2014, on March 17, 2014 at 11:38 PM

So I had this idea, that I would make decor-matching citronella floating candles for the (outdoor) wedding and float them in bowls. The water would be there to put out any fires if someone bumped a...

Celia Milton, Mar 18, 2014 11 85
Kristellen
5:00 reception
Kristellen, on March 18, 2014 at 9:40 AM

So my ceremony Is at 4:30 and reception is immediately to follow. We will be serving a meal afterwards, Is that too early ? Also there. Will be no cocktail hour because my families dont drink

THE Mrs. Russell, Mar 18, 2014 13 212
Mrs. Bauer-*$
Anyone Not having a bridal shower or bachelorette party?
Mrs. Bauer-*$, on March 16, 2014 at 8:50 PM

I was just wondering if anyone else is leaving these wedding rituals out. I really have no desire to have a bachelorette party and as for a bridal shower, it would be fun but I only have one really...

LB, Mar 17, 2014 23 534
GrayCatVintage
Dessert Table - We will not be "serving" cake, so do people just "graze"?
GrayCatVintage, on March 16, 2014 at 7:24 PM

We are going to have a small two tier cake for us to cut but since we want a BUNCH of flavors we are doing cakeballs (it's a special thing our baker does). This also allows us to travel with cake...

GrayCatVintage, Mar 17, 2014 12 3,504
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Narcissistic Mother...why do I even bother?
Callie, on March 16, 2014 at 8:01 PM

My mom has been narcissistic for as long as I can remember. Ever since I was a child everything has been all about her. Even at the birth of my child she had prior plans (with a man she had just...

Katydid, Mar 16, 2014 5 1,673
cupcake_bride
widows...
cupcake_bride, on March 15, 2014 at 10:51 PM

I didn't realize until I started with the STDs, but we have quite a few widows on the guest list. I'd like to know two things... 1. Are you addressing as Ms. or Mrs.? I did Mrs. because that's what...

BunnyLove, Mar 16, 2014 13 155
GrayCatVintage
How do you really "get out of" serving a full meal by having an afternoon wedding?
GrayCatVintage, on March 15, 2014 at 4:10 PM

Every wedding I have ever been to has served a meal. I have been to Catholic weddings including mass (so they start at 10:00 or 11:00 am) that served heavy apps at like 2:00 then dinner at 5:00,...

Lady Firefly, Mar 15, 2014 18 492
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Invitation Addressing
Annalisa, on March 14, 2014 at 7:21 PM

What is the proper way to address invitations to a married couple when only using a single outer envelope (no inner envelope)? Mr. John and Mrs. Sally Smith or Mr. and Mrs. John Smith?

Jessica, Mar 15, 2014 15 423
Jill
Include rehearsal dinner invite with wedding invite?
Jill, on March 15, 2014 at 10:50 AM

So I'm getting these printed together, but not sure if they should also be mailed together. What are you all doing??

Kaegurl, Mar 15, 2014 6 244
Soon2bMrsSmith
Getting married in the Mall Food Court??
Soon2bMrsSmith, on March 4, 2014 at 5:44 PM

Saw this video online about a couple getting married in the food court. (please watch the video before commenting) If it every came down to it would you marry your finance at any location that may not...

Mrs. Kommeren, Mar 15, 2014 5 743
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Someone hacked our wedding registry!
SamanthaNKyle0621, on March 15, 2014 at 2:29 AM

So I was updating my registry today and noticed that the total of new items exceeded what I had just added. So I checked it out the list and at the very bottom was a bunch of baby stuff. Yes, baby...

Anisea, Mar 15, 2014 9 602
FutureMrsT.
Will the universe implode if he doesn't wear a boutonniere????
FutureMrsT., on February 27, 2014 at 12:55 PM

He doesn't really want to wear one, but my mom, florist, and coordinator says he should. my mom thinks it won't look formal without it. he thinks it will take away from the tux even if its small. it...

Future Mrs.Whitaker, Mar 14, 2014 25 217
♥MrsC♥
Anyone wishing they would have eloped instead?
♥MrsC♥, on June 9, 2013 at 10:47 PM

I wanted a Church wedding so our family & friends could be there to share our special day with us but the closer it gets the more i wish i would have eloped with just the two of us. I had no idea...

Courtney, Mar 14, 2014 49 338
Ms. to Mrs. Pratt <3
How to include a large number of children in ceremony?!?!
Ms. to Mrs. Pratt <3, on March 12, 2014 at 4:06 PM

I am 19 years old, and getting married on September 20th of this year. Kids are and always have been a huge part of my life. I have been trying, with no success, to figure out how to include the...

Out the Window, Mar 14, 2014 44 4,033
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Why Do Brides Have Videographer Tape Them Getting Ready?
Stylish Bride, on March 12, 2014 at 12:08 PM

I'm trying to grasp this concept, but I'm failing miserably. Why would a bride want to have people see her get ready with makeup, eyelashes, hair stylist, etc.? Why start your wedding video with that?...

Jemma, Mar 14, 2014 15 1,304
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