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How Close is Too Close?
Heather, on March 25, 2014 at 3:14 PM

My fiance and I got engaged about two weeks after his cousin, who he happens to work with. My fiance has been trying to talk with his cousin about dates so we don't run into any problems. My fiance...

Heather, Mar 25, 2014 9 2,110
Lisa G.I'm a Mrs. now!
How to address Invitation when husband is in nursing home?
Lisa G.I'm a Mrs. now!, on March 25, 2014 at 1:06 PM

My uncle recently was put in a nursing home. My STD cards were sent when he was still at home. How do I address the invitation now that he is no longer living in his home with his wife? Do I send a...

Allyson, Mar 25, 2014 6 616
JaQuaya
Inviting parents of wedding party ?
JaQuaya , on March 24, 2014 at 5:03 AM

What's the etiquette? I suppose since your BP is your nearest and dearest it would only make sense that the parents are invited but what is everyone doing? For example, one of my BM I've been close...

Out the Window, Mar 25, 2014 24 1,111
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Dual Language Wedding Advice
Katie, on March 24, 2014 at 3:20 PM

Hi all! So one of my good friends recently got engaged to her boyfriend of 4 years! I'm so happy for her, but a little worried because her and her fiance(!) are already butting heads regarding the...

Nancy Taussig, Mar 25, 2014 7 124
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3rd marriage helpful hints
Brittney , on March 25, 2014 at 1:53 AM

This is will be my 3rd marriage, but his first. Does anyone out there have any advice on having a 3rd ceremony? It is going to be small, my first two were on the larger side, so there will be people...

Cheetah2B, Mar 25, 2014 3 1,416
MrsLaguna
Anyone Getting Married In A Catholic Church??? HELP!
MrsLaguna, on March 23, 2014 at 12:18 PM

I feel like not many people get married in Church these days. Do any of you know if both the bride and groom need to be confirmed and have their first communion done to be able to get married in...

Rosebud27, Mar 24, 2014 26 2,866 1
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Matron of Honor decides not to attend/plan a bachelorette!
Shara Ashley , on March 23, 2014 at 1:12 PM

How do I handle this? My Sister (only sister) planned me a beautiful shower then 3 days later tells me due to a million excuses (money, not spending enough time with her family, doesn't want to sleep...

Shara Ashley, Mar 24, 2014 21 2,435
Crystal
Paying for a Groom's tux
Crystal, on March 24, 2014 at 9:00 AM

We have 5 gm, 4 of them are wearing their military whites. The 1 that's not wearing military whites has been unable to work due to an illness and is currently living at home. FH wants us to pay for...

Emmerdoodle, Mar 24, 2014 7 289
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Bridal shower blowup- all wrong information on invite
Private User, on March 23, 2014 at 4:28 PM

I get a message Friday afternoon saying telling me that on the invite for my bridal shower,my last name was spelled incorrectly.. my mothers ENTIRE name spelled incorrectly. The registries were wrong,...

GrayCatVintage, Mar 23, 2014 11 1,367
Kylene
Hotel Room Block Etiquette
Kylene, on March 23, 2014 at 9:56 PM

We have a decent number of out of town guests coming in for our wedding and per etiquette I know I should get a block of hotel rooms for these guests. I've contacted the hotel our venue often uses and...

Kari Taggard, Mar 23, 2014 9 880
Jen
Sending announcement after wedding
Jen, on March 22, 2014 at 1:36 PM

I am having a small intimate ceremony but want family I do not see to at least be aware I got married. I have so many thoughts I am going crazy!! Do you think it is ok to just send out an announcement...

mscountry, Mar 23, 2014 6 172
rusticbride
Is it rude to NOT let someone throw you a shower?
rusticbride, on March 21, 2014 at 10:58 AM

I was thinking about this the other day. My Mom/sister(MOH) are throwing me a bridal shower. My step Mom is throwing us a Bridal Shower/Stock the Bar Party. Monday, my FMIL asks if her church can...

Mrs.Matthews, Mar 23, 2014 23 2,665
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How to Uninvite People BEFORE Sending Save the Dates
Angela, on March 21, 2014 at 10:56 AM

The title sounds strange, I guess. I knew that our guest list would be long because we know a lot of people. I started asking people for their addresses, like family and a few co-workers. Except now,...

Rachey, Mar 22, 2014 17 781
Kimberly
How do you know an Officiant is Legit?
Kimberly, on March 20, 2014 at 6:50 PM

So I found an officiant online. But how do I know everything is legit? Are there certain specific papers I should ask for or he should provide before or after the wedding?

Allison, Mar 21, 2014 15 1,726
Casey
Help! We want a short Reception.
Casey, on February 15, 2011 at 12:59 PM

Okay so my FH and I have decided to have a very simple, short reception in his mothers garden (we're inviting about 70 people) With just simple food like sandwiches and salads, some deserts. No...

Renee, Mar 21, 2014 13 4,291
Theresa Hall
Reserved Chairs for deceased in-laws
Theresa Hall, on March 20, 2014 at 6:07 PM

So my FH's parents are both passed. His step father will be at the wedding. He asked if we could reserve 2 seats with his mother and father's name on them. Not sure how that will go over but I am...

Erin13, Mar 21, 2014 32 5,443
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Reception Only Invite - Do I bring a gift?
Grace, on March 21, 2014 at 1:07 AM

A very old friend of mine (who I've since lost most contact with) invited me and my fiance to her reception with drinks & dancing (no dinner due to tight budget). There is no mention of a registry on...

Jemma, Mar 21, 2014 4 11,177
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Wives at the bachelor party
Private User, on March 20, 2014 at 11:07 PM

Is it just me or does it seem a bit ridiculous that the groomsmen would suggest inviting their wives to the bachelor dinner? My fiancé and I had planned separate outings, of course, for our parties....

Jess & Sean, Mar 20, 2014 3 1,248
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Registry gifts. When to send thank you notes.
Francesca, on March 20, 2014 at 7:18 PM

We just got two of our registry gifts already. I had to call target to see who they were from. When should you send thank you notes ASAP or after the Wedding ?

#BROTHERHOOD, Mar 20, 2014 4 337
Shaquaya
That 1 complaining bridesmaid...
Shaquaya, on March 20, 2014 at 9:02 AM

I saw the post yesterday where everyone was bragging about how great their BMs have been. All 4 of mine are my sisters and 3 of them have been great but my older sister has complained about...

Shaquaya, Mar 20, 2014 16 148
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