Discussions from Etiquette and Advice

My future BIL’s girlfriend is an awful person and makes it very obvious she does not like me & in simple terms, I do not like her back. They have been together 5+ years, on the road to engagement,...

My wedding is Saturday 09/24 and I hired servers. I have know idea where to start and how to instruct them. I need to write a list so that I don't need to constantly tell them what to do during the...

So my sis(19) is getting married in 2024. She'll be 21 at that point. We lost our mom in 2016, and never really had a dad. So she asked me to step in as mother of bride and father(walking her down the...

Happy Sunday! So I recently got a Save the Date in the mail that just had my name on it. Since I'll be doing my own STD's after the holidays (doing them early because there will be a lot of OOT...

While I was home for the weekend I ran into a friends husband and he told me that they were no longer together because of an affair that my friend had. They married years ago and I lost contact with...

We are getting married at the courthouse just the two of us, so it’s nothing traditional. I’m wondering if we should still share our vows to make them match or something? I’ve seen that couples do...

Backstory: my FH and I are getting married in November 2022. At first I figured my parents would help with little things like flowers or my dress. I’m the oldest daughter getting married. My FH is the...

Hi all, My sister and her husband will both be in my wedding party, and their 7 year daughter old will be a flower girl. It will be a medium sized wedding (adults only, except the flower girl). The...

I do not like the idea of having small children at my wedding. The often throw fits during the ceremony and we are really going for the party vibe for our reception. Is it weird or tacky to to say no...

I am in a real pickle with my future MIL... Me and my fiance have 2 children (1 and 2 years old) that are going to be our ring bearer and flower girl. Now my MIL is pitching a fit because she thinks...

I have a friend who got married last year and I was the MC, we've been really close since High School, mostly because we share that kind of bond of always telling it like it is and being the "man" in...

Hi! I’m in dire need of help. Do you think it is a good idea to set a place setting for vendor for the day! IE: photographer, coordinator, DJ and emcee??? Should they be added to my guest count or how...

These friends were a big part of my life during a really hard time for myself. We all had our own issues making it hard for us to be good friends to one another but I have so much love for all of them...

Is it ok for the mother of the bride and the mother of the groom to have different flower pieces? One may want a corsage while I know the other one wants a boutonnière instead. It shouldn’t look weird...

I'm getting started on my vows now, since FH and I are writing our own, but I'm struggling to write them! I'm not sure where to start, and all I'm coming up with is funny things. Any advice, or places...

Hey everyone! Got a question about inviting only a certain few people in my work place. Due to costs, I was only going to invite my boss and his wife, as well as have one of my coworker friends as my...

So for my MOH and bridesmaids I asked them to get their dresses off azazie because that's the only place that I can find that has my color. I tried to do in person stores but they all said they were...

My husband and I got married in October 2021, and for various reasons (*ahem* excuses) we still have not mailed out thank-you cards to guests/gift-givers 😩 we’ve had them bought for a very long time...

Hi everyone, I wanted to share something it’s constantly in my mind right now which makes me emotional.. So i’m my future husbands ‘second’ wife and he’s my first. At the beginning our relationship he...