Discussions from Etiquette and Advice

Were coming up very close to the deadline an quite a few people haven responded im going to make a post the week of the rsvp deadline. how should i word it? i feel like wording it like " if you...

My question is... should I rent air conditioning for the barn? I'm asking for the etiquette here for summer wedding protocol. By air conditioning, I mean a 20 ton unit that sits outside the barn and...

What is an appropriate amount of time between sibling weddings? A little back story: my FH and I have been together nearly 10 years. 2023 will be 10 years for us and 2023 will also be 3 years since we...

I'm not planning on asking for a few more months but I'm starting to plan out my bridal party. There are 3 girls that I'm close to at this moment from my part time job that I hang out with often...

Is anyone having a large number of guets at their wedding? We plan to invite 100 people. How do you avoid hurting someone's feelings when they are not invited?

So my FH and I have a roommate who was a friend but with all of the turmoil of her living with us and causing MANY issues... we no longer speak... even in the same house. It is causing me major...

My soon to be mother in law (mother of the groom) told me that 4 people are coming that my fiancé and I agreed we were not inviting. She invited these people without us knowing and they said yes. She...

I keep going back and forth here and am looking for options. I'm a BM for a wedding coming up in a few weeks. I am almost certain I remember the bride saying she was going to cover our hair/makeup as...

We’re going to have a large number of out of town guests attending our wedding. We had originally planned on leaving for our honeymoon on Sunday (day after our wedding) but I’m now thinking we should...

My future BIL’s girlfriend is an awful person and makes it very obvious she does not like me & in simple terms, I do not like her back. They have been together 5+ years, on the road to engagement,...

My wedding is Saturday 09/24 and I hired servers. I have know idea where to start and how to instruct them. I need to write a list so that I don't need to constantly tell them what to do during the...

So my sis(19) is getting married in 2024. She'll be 21 at that point. We lost our mom in 2016, and never really had a dad. So she asked me to step in as mother of bride and father(walking her down the...

Happy Sunday! So I recently got a Save the Date in the mail that just had my name on it. Since I'll be doing my own STD's after the holidays (doing them early because there will be a lot of OOT...

While I was home for the weekend I ran into a friends husband and he told me that they were no longer together because of an affair that my friend had. They married years ago and I lost contact with...

We are getting married at the courthouse just the two of us, so it’s nothing traditional. I’m wondering if we should still share our vows to make them match or something? I’ve seen that couples do...

Backstory: my FH and I are getting married in November 2022. At first I figured my parents would help with little things like flowers or my dress. I’m the oldest daughter getting married. My FH is the...

Hi all, My sister and her husband will both be in my wedding party, and their 7 year daughter old will be a flower girl. It will be a medium sized wedding (adults only, except the flower girl). The...

I do not like the idea of having small children at my wedding. The often throw fits during the ceremony and we are really going for the party vibe for our reception. Is it weird or tacky to to say no...

I am in a real pickle with my future MIL... Me and my fiance have 2 children (1 and 2 years old) that are going to be our ring bearer and flower girl. Now my MIL is pitching a fit because she thinks...