Discussions from Etiquette and Advice

Would love y’all’s help here. I am really hellbent on not having a bridal party. Our wedding is non traditional and I just really don’t want one. My fiancé on the other hand wants one, or at least 2...

I am acutall the florist for this wedding. The bride and mother got in an arguement over proper lighting of the unity candle. The mother seems to think that lighting the "mother's" candle is performed...

We have sent save the dates to 200 people. We have decided to make wedding much smaller to 75. Is that a big no, no?

Do you think a wedding planner is necessary? If so? Just a day of? Or did you have one further out?

Okay so I’m getting married in June of 2023. I have the invites all ready to go, but I completely forgot about the save the dates… should I even send out save the dates? Is the invite enough? Or is it...

Were coming up very close to the deadline an quite a few people haven responded im going to make a post the week of the rsvp deadline. how should i word it? i feel like wording it like " if you...

My question is... should I rent air conditioning for the barn? I'm asking for the etiquette here for summer wedding protocol. By air conditioning, I mean a 20 ton unit that sits outside the barn and...

What is an appropriate amount of time between sibling weddings? A little back story: my FH and I have been together nearly 10 years. 2023 will be 10 years for us and 2023 will also be 3 years since we...

I'm not planning on asking for a few more months but I'm starting to plan out my bridal party. There are 3 girls that I'm close to at this moment from my part time job that I hang out with often...

Is anyone having a large number of guets at their wedding? We plan to invite 100 people. How do you avoid hurting someone's feelings when they are not invited?

So my FH and I have a roommate who was a friend but with all of the turmoil of her living with us and causing MANY issues... we no longer speak... even in the same house. It is causing me major...

My soon to be mother in law (mother of the groom) told me that 4 people are coming that my fiancé and I agreed we were not inviting. She invited these people without us knowing and they said yes. She...

I keep going back and forth here and am looking for options. I'm a BM for a wedding coming up in a few weeks. I am almost certain I remember the bride saying she was going to cover our hair/makeup as...

We’re going to have a large number of out of town guests attending our wedding. We had originally planned on leaving for our honeymoon on Sunday (day after our wedding) but I’m now thinking we should...

My future BIL’s girlfriend is an awful person and makes it very obvious she does not like me & in simple terms, I do not like her back. They have been together 5+ years, on the road to engagement,...

My wedding is Saturday 09/24 and I hired servers. I have know idea where to start and how to instruct them. I need to write a list so that I don't need to constantly tell them what to do during the...

So my sis(19) is getting married in 2024. She'll be 21 at that point. We lost our mom in 2016, and never really had a dad. So she asked me to step in as mother of bride and father(walking her down the...

Happy Sunday! So I recently got a Save the Date in the mail that just had my name on it. Since I'll be doing my own STD's after the holidays (doing them early because there will be a lot of OOT...

While I was home for the weekend I ran into a friends husband and he told me that they were no longer together because of an affair that my friend had. They married years ago and I lost contact with...