Discussions from Etiquette and Advice

Hello y’all. I know it sounds creepy, but when I was listening to the chosen song and trying to picture myself walking on my wedding, I started crying. How do you not cry on your actual wedding? I...

Hello! Ok so I know I’m jumping the gun since my invitations won’t be sent out until April of next year- however I’m very curious as to why people are saying digital invites aren’t taken seriously?...

Hello! I'm new, but I have a question that I've been needing some honest feedback on. I would like to do a "Father Daughter Dance" and a "Mother Daughter Dance". The day of my wedding my Grandfather...

Does any one have man-made or simulated diamonds in their ring? Would you be offended if your FH proposed with anything other than real diamonds?

So I’m planning my wedding and of corse my fiancé and I are thrilled. I’ve never been super close with my parents but have gotten slightly closer since moving out of their house for a few years. My...

I haven't sent out the invitations with RSVPs yet, but I'm already running into some problems. There's going to be a number of people who have children with different last names, and while I've tried...

Hi all. I’m in the very early beginning stages of planning. I’m really struggling with the bridal party. I have 4 extremely close friends, who will absolutely be my bridesmaids. No one cares about the...

How soon did you order thank you cards? We got 30 preview shots a few days after our wedding and I love one of the photos and really liked some of the others so I ordered thank you cards like a week...

Hi all - super frustrated and looking for advice. We got married 10/28. Per our photography contract, it said 3 sneak peek photos within 3 days. I reached out to her after a week of nothing and she...

If I was a personal attendant in a friends wedding, should I feel obligated to have them as a personal attendant in mine? I don’t want a big wedding party. I already have 7 bridesmaids, and I just...

Who’s responsible for paying the bridesmaids attire, hair, and make-up?

My fiance' and I are getting married in the fall and he selected a cousin of his to be a groomsman. His cousin who is now out of the military wants to wear his dress blues during the ceremony instead...

I'm ordering cake pulls and I was wondering if that's a thing the bride usually participates in or if it's just for the girls? I just want to be sure I have enough!

I asked all of my friends to be bridesmaids/MOH a few months ago & everyone said yes. I choose my middle school friend to be my MOH even though she lives in Texas & our wedding is in Michigan....

My father died in May of 2010, my wedding falls one day shy of the anniversary of his passing (I did not think about it when booking the venue). I've been thinking for years on how I would want to...

Hi all! So I am doing the traditional father-daughter dance with my dad. We had a rough relationship growing up but finally started repairing it about 6 years ago then he almost passed away in the...

Please help us not make the same mistakes. Now that the big day is behind you, what are some of your biggest regrets? Post a pic if possible, thanks so much!

My fiancé and I originally wanted no kids on our wedding day. But my parents are insisting that we extend the invites to say "and family". Which is fine for the most part... I have one relative on my...

Few questions regarding wedding invitations. I created a wedding website and informed guests via save the dates of accommodations /transportation provided for the day of the wedding. If all that was...