What should i do about dances?

Definitely not silly at all. I think it works be fine, as long as each dance isn't full songs. The last wedding I was at the bride and groom dance was 10 minutes and each parent dance was 5 minutes. It felt very long and the photographer was just standing around after getting her shots.

Hi, Amber,

I don't think that would be silly. You know that both your mother and grandfather love to dance, why not have them share the dance floor with you on your wedding day? I don't think your mother or grandfather would be embarrassed. Do not let others who oppose it afflict you. If you and your mother and grandfather like to dance together then why not? I think that you will be a favorite of many at your wedding.

I don’t think this would be silly at all. Instead of an additional song, why don’t you have your mom cut in halfway through.

View Quoted Comment I agree with this. At my brother's wedding, he danced with our mom and then my sister and I. My mom and brother had their own song. For dance with my brother and I and my brother and sister I danced with him for the first half of a song and my sister the second half. Our family is very close so I thought it was sweet that he included us like that. My sister-in-law didn't want to do a spot light dance with anyone.

Not silly at all. You can dance with whomever you want. It is YOUR wedding and your loved ones will LOVE it.

You can always do a short 1 minute dance with him and then a combined parent dance with your mother and him and his mother! My husband and I did a combined parent dance because I’m not close with my father but wanted to give him the moment and was uncomfortable so my husband and his mother graciously agreed to do that with me

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I didn't feel it would work because my parents were divorced, so it might be awkward for them to dance together as they haven't spoken a word to each other in over 20 years.

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I like this idea. Just switch dance partners 1/2 way through the song.

I think dancing with your mom is a great idea. I was going to do the same thing. She should have a special moment with you as well ☺️

I think a dance for each of them is fine. I went to wedding and the groom danced with his grandma ( who was like a mom to him), then did a dance with his mom ( they are working on their relationship) along with a father daughter dance.

A dance for everyone of them, in my opinion, is acceptable . The groom danced with his grandmother, who was like a mother to him, then with his mother (they are trying to mend their relationship), coupled with a father-daughter dance, at a wedding I attended.