Discussions from Etiquette and Advice

Not looking for any judgement, just helpful information and tips. My fiancé and I are looking at a courthouse wedding now and ceremony later. Is it possible to do this while keeping it secret from...

So i know you should not choose your bridesmaids out of obligation, but I find myself in a sticky situation where I'm not sure what to do. I have three sisters. One is my MOH, we've known she would be...

To the brides: what’s the most special thing your MOH did/could do on your wedding day? A special gift? A letter? Nailing the speech? I want to make sure I kill it on the wedding day as MOH so I’m...

So, I have this cousin and we are on decent terms, but she also has made semi-crude jokes throughout most of my life about wearing a white dress to my wedding and has sent multiple texts of literal...

I'm not getting married, I'm a maid of honor at my cousin/BFFs wedding and I've been constantly annoyed at the other maid of honor. Yeah, my cousin decided to have two maids of honor because she...

Hello! Quick question about guest list- should all family be invited? What about family I haven’t seen in years? I have heard about the etiquette of inviting people but just wanted an opinion on this...

So, I have this teen (16, almost 17) in my family who I dearly love. We're quite close and I've always thought I'd have her in my wedding party. I asked her parents first, they said it would be okay....

A friend of mine got married this weekend. A guest brought a date who wore a white lace wedding dress. Really!?! What would you do in this situation as the bride?

Our ceremony is at 230 and we have to be out of the church by 4. Between the ceremony and reception we have two places we'd like to stop for pictures. We have a choice of starting our reception...

I decided long ago that if I ever got married, my youngest sister would be my maid of honor. I am not at all close with my other siblings, and my friends have become distant. Literally the only other...

Any other diabetic brides have ideas on how to deal with insulin pumps (with tubing) and wedding dresses. I only wear short dresses currently and so my pump is usually in a garter holster which isn't...

I am getting married June 3, 2023. When would be a good time to send out the invitations? Most of our guests are coming from out of town, so I want them to have plenty of time to either get a hotel...

I’m having a micro wedding and the only guests are immediate family, grandparents, and my fiancés 2 cousins and aunt. They’re immigrants from a really far away country and they’re basically immediate...

My FH loves to smoke international cigars . So I wanted to surprise him with a cigar bar at the wedding . I just started looking into this and I'm unaware of the cost and etc involved. DIY or hire a...

I have question, our wedding is in Puerto Rico and it is pretty pricey as it is.. is it mandatory to have a whole engagement party or would it be perfectly fine to just gather my bridal party both men...

So I’m still in the very early stages of planning, but I want to at least get the guest list for our families down. Now I have never really been close to any of my cousins. The most interaction I get...

So we’re trying to make sure people know how many in their families are invited including if someone has a plus one or not. I’m not exactly sure how to indicate on the invitation exactly how many may...

If so, what did you decide on? We went to Bed, Bath and Beyond to register on Monday and a store associate was talking to us about the vacuums. I know that Dyson is super popular, but he recommended...

Hi! We really wanted to do a welcome party for all of our guests with food & drinks but couldn’t afford it. Our plan now is to hold a rehearsal dinner with family from 6-7:30 then immediately...