Discussions from Etiquette and Advice

My dress is fit n flare as I mentioned before. It has a pretty full skirt, which of course will only make it that much harder to pee. I know I will need help. I am a social drinker, so of course I...

As a guest, do you prefer the couple telling you what to wear or do you feel that is overstepping? As a hostess, do you have a preference of what vibe you want or do you trust adult guests to dress...

Hi..I’ve never done one of these before but I feel very conflicted if I should ask my MOH to no longer be apart of the wedding party. I’ve been engaged for nearly 2.5 years (due to COVID) and my...

I got married 2 weeks ago and am finishing up my thank you cards. The only trouble i’m having is with one card. My aunt and uncle gave us some money so i want to thank them for that. But they were...

Ok... so now that I have an idea what gifts to put in bags, the next question is....when would you give the bridesmaids and groomsmen their gift bags?💜

I want some unique Bridesmaid gift ideas. What did you do for your girls? I failed to do the formal proposal to them. It was kind of a given who was gonna do what from previous discussions. Should I...

First off, I can’t believe it’s less than 3 weeks away. I’m getting down to the last minute items “To-Do” and tipping vendors is one of them. I’ve been referencing this article as a guideline on who...

Hello friends! I have been thinking about this and I just want some help. The DJ that we are looking to hire is a family friend. Should I invite his family as well? (Wife and 2 children) I only know...

Hi! Ok here’s the deal, my FHs Best man is his brother and his wife is one of my bridesmaids. Do they have to walk together or do we just go on like normal and have them walk with the normal people?...

My MOH recently hosted a couples shower for my FH and I. I’ve been working on thank you notes and have about half done, but I keep getting stuck on wording for the rest. I know I’m supposed to thank...

My boyfriend and I have talked about eloping for a while but ultimately decided not to because he wants me to have my dream wedding one day, but recent falling outs with some of my family members have...

What should I do for a friend of my mother who has semi-helped plan my wedding? She is going to help coordinate the day of events as well. Any suggestions are welcome!

Is it appropriate to tip vendors on top of their fee? Is it necessary and required?? If so how much like %? Example: photographer or bartenders??

My “bestfriend” just asked me to be her honorary bridesmaid.She said she had 9 bridesmaids originally (me included) but her fiancé said he doesn’t have many friends so she decided to make me a...

William and I are eloping next July. Since our engagement, several people have invited themselves to our ceremony and others have invited themselves to be in the wedding. What can be tactfully said to...

FH and I tentatively picked a date that we loved and worked well with a number of factors including his summer break from teaching. When we asked family members about the date, his father expressed...

My friend is getting married and although I have been friends with her for over 15 years, we have barely spoken or seen eachother in almost 2. She asked me to be a bridesmaid when she got engaged in...

I have a huge family and am having a hard time with our guest list. My great grandmother had 7 children so I have a ton of family and I cannot invite them all. My plan is to invite the cousins that...

Hi, New to all of this wedding business so I wanted to get some feedback on this. We just had a zoom chat with our wedding officiant who we found and contacted online. She wanted to get to know us and...

Hello! Is it expected to tip your photographer that is doing your engagement photos? We have a package deal for engagement and wedding photos so we already have them paid for. Thank you!