Discussions from Etiquette and Advice

So my best friend/MOH is getting married in January and I am so excited for them! They are doing a courthouse wedding and then a dinner reception to celebrate. On their website they specifically...

I think there are other threads regarding this topic, but I just want to know.

Hello All, I need to vent. I recently had an issue with one of my bridesmaids (bm a) and I am trying to figure out the best way to handle this. I specifically asked for a certain shoe to be purchased...

Ok so I'm feeling a bit strange putting a medical issue on here, but I'm not looking for medical advice. I've had Tinea Versicolor on my upper back for over 10 years. I've been to several...

How do I convince my fiancé that all of his cousins especially those that are under 21 don’t need to be at the wedding. But also how do you invite some and not the others to the wedding if they are...

Hello, Im new to wedding wire nad maybe this has been asked before but I didn't know how to find it. If you have guests that choose to stay somewhere other than the all-inclustive resort that the...

So my husband and I are being thrown a BBQ by our in-laws as a belated celebration for people who didn't come to our wedding in Arizona. We had a small COVID wedding so we had 35 people and that was...

Hi, I've seen a couple posts on here about not having kids at your wedding. I was planning to put this on our wedding website in the FAQs, but how should I word it? Also planning to only address...

Hi All, I'm planning to give out my bridal party gifts at my bachelorette, but I have a friend coming who is not in my bridal party. Should I get her a gift as well? or should I wait to give out the...

Etiquette question about addressing Save the Dates and invitations - Whose name goes first? Does it matter? - bride's married female friend who kept her last name, and friend's husband who kept his...

I've recently been pondering the thought of making this an adult only wedding. My only reservation with doing this is that most (read: 95%) of my guests will be traveling from out of state. What are...

My fiance and I are getting married in Nov. this year. We sent out the Save The Dates to 60+ family and friends, originally planning on having upto 100 guests, assuming everyone brings...

Anybody dealing with working on prenuptial agreements? I don't have a ton of money and fiance has a bit, How do you keep your excitement when that talk is upon you?

Anyone else feeling pushed to invite people to your wedding by the very people who offered to pay for your wedding I.E. parents???? Like I already feel like this is a set up because I feel like...

I haven't heard from a few people and my RSVP deadline is the end of this week. I am going to send out a gentle text reminder tomorrow, but don't know what to say? Anyone have example wording they...

Today, my coworker comes up to me and she tells me that she’s upset with me about not inviting her to the wedding. However, I sent her the STD & told her she was definitely invited. Now, this is...

We are getting married in December (haven’t even sent invitations yet!) and just received a gift from distant cousins. Do I send a thank you now or wait until after the wedding? I’m not even sure if...

Hello, I have two best friends I want to ask to be my matrons of honor. They had been college roommates at one point and now have grown apart. The three of us used to all be friends but now the two of...

Hi all I’m having a bridesmaid dilemma which is giving me anxiety at the moment! I’m planning my wedding for early 2024 so want to ask my bridesmaids fairly soon. I have 3 sisters, 3 sister in laws...

My Fiance and I want to have a small wedding originally I was thinking of no more than 50 but I work at a place with 15 other women. Ive only been working there since Aug of 21. we are a tight group...