Discussions from Etiquette and Advice

We love this person so much but I don't know if she thinks that her and her husband are coming to the wedding- if we have more people decline maybe they can..... do people just buy gifts for engaged...

I originally wanted an ivory dress because i didnt want anyone saying anything rude about me wearing a white dress because 1. i was married before and divorced the worthless first husband (when we...

Not sure why there is such a huge issue over having a cash bar? I read a post yesterday where it is norm to have Jack & Jill parties. Where we live cash bars are the norm. So what is the issue? My...

My MIL really wants my FSIL to be a bridesmaid. Currently I only have a MOH and my FH only has BM I wanted to keep it small, not to mention she is only 16... Thoughts?? Also my wedding is in September...

Okay so we're are getting rsvps but they are verbal. Would you completely count them or ask for the card? My mom is getting frustrated because FH is giving verbal yeses and not sending back the card....

Hi, we are getting married at a beautiful lake house. Do to spacing however, I can not physically seat all 135 of my guests at the same time. So, we have decided to not have a formal "sit down"...

My bridal shower was yesterday, so I logged onto my registries today to make sure there were will plenty of gifts in all price ranges left for the wedding. We have a BBB & Walmart registry, and I...

Me and fiance plan to get married next year in the summer, so we both decided to look at a few venues. Anyways fiance and I both talked to his mother about one of the venues that we decided to go...

Should personal attendants and ushers walk down the aisle together before the bridesmaids/groomsmen walk down? Like walk down together and sit up at the front row? We have limited number of...

Since registries are all the rage here tonight, I'm wondering how you ladies feel about the gift wrap option when ordering online. I would definitely not want guests to spend an extra $4 on...

What is the difference and is it necessary to have both? Because majority of my bridesmaid are out of town and state so I don't want them spending alot of money flying back and forth. And plus we...

FH and I are getting married on July 4th in Massachusetts. (We live 30 mins away in upstate NY.) His grandmother who raised him and adopted him is very ill in his home state of Wisconsin. His grandma...

Fh and I have lived together for 4 yrs now. The thought of having a bridal shower just seems ludicrous and greedy! I was at my moms today and she was hounding me to do a registry for a bridal shower....

Last night we went and looked at place we loved for the ceremony and reception. Its a private residence, but the owner is letting us use the property for free. The only issue is parking- its very...

My brother's girlfriend works for a bank. Her boss is a notary and has offered to officiate our wedding for free. FH and I want to give her a thank you gift of some sort, but don't have any ideas. We...

In my case, it's for a friend, not a family member.... but comments on any situation are appreciated!

I don't really have any small children that I can use as a flower girl or ring bearer. However, I do have two children who will be 10 years old when I have my wedding. Do you think that it is ok to...

My fiance and I plan to have a Courthouse Wedding on a Friday with a reception on a Sunday. We plan to have our closest family members and a few friends a our "Ceremony" . Can we invite the rest of...

Hey ladies! I know there are a ton of posts on issues with kids on RSVPs, but after reading through old threads I'm still not sure what to do and need some advice. My cousin & her husband had a baby...