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C & K
Worried about uninvited guests showing up at reception
C & K, on April 6, 2015 at 8:14 PM

FMIL is seriously stressing the sh*t out of me! She told FH that she isn't inviting anyone to the wedding because we won't have a band. So, FH and I invited more of our friends that we had to cut out...

C & K, Apr 7, 2015 34 472
JuleeM
Non-hosted events on wedding website?
JuleeM, on April 6, 2015 at 4:13 PM

We plan to head to the hotel bar (or a nearby bar) after our wedding reception. This will be just an informal after party for guests who are interested. We will also be having breakfast at the hotel...

Christine, Apr 7, 2015 5 366
Moss Wedding
Buck & Doe and/or Bridal Shower
Moss Wedding, on April 6, 2015 at 11:01 PM

Just a quick question. How many of you had both. Is this normal or is it greedy....just wondering. My Bridal party is hosting our Buck & Doe but my Bridesmaids are wanting to host a shower. Confused ...

Moss Wedding, Apr 6, 2015 5 1,262
B
Reception only etiquette.
Bohemianblossom, on April 6, 2015 at 3:07 PM

Hi everyone, I need a little help with some etiquette rules. Hubby and I eloped with immediate family only last month but we decided to throw a party/reception (at his mother and grandmothers request...

Mrs. Kassy, Apr 6, 2015 2 557
Brittany
Man of Honor
Brittany, on April 5, 2015 at 11:17 PM

I have asked my brother to be my man of honor in my wedding. We have a plan for his attire, etc. I'm not sure about two things: 1. Should he walk in like a maid/matron of honor would? Or maybe come...

jenna_, Apr 6, 2015 11 2,688
NaShara and Milton
When are you supposed to open up wedding gifts?
NaShara and Milton, on April 3, 2015 at 10:01 PM

We just received our first wedding gift and my mom and brother are convinced I must open them at the wedding reception. I'm trying to let them know that's not the case but they aren't understanding...

VMDIZZLE, Apr 6, 2015 28 10,579
Trisha
Personal Attendants
Trisha, on April 3, 2015 at 4:21 PM

I'm starting to make my wedding day schedule and did a Google search for what exactly are the duties of my personal attendants (I have two) vs the duties of my bridesmaids. I was really surprised when...

Athena, Apr 4, 2015 47 3,645
V
Alcohol at the after party
VWCat, on April 3, 2015 at 3:22 PM

My question is how much alcohol should I buy for our after party? We're camping at the venue after the reception, and I expect around 20 guests will stay to camp with us. I want to make sure I have...

Staci, Apr 3, 2015 15 964
C&S
Waxing before the wedding?
C&S, on April 1, 2015 at 3:00 PM

I am planning to get a bunch of waxing done before the wedding (eye brows, arms, legs etc.) but I'm unsure of when to do it. I'm scared that if I do it on Thursday (for Sat wedding) I may still be...

Alyssa, Apr 3, 2015 40 8,420
Mindi
Why would you RSVP maybe to a wedding?
Mindi, on April 2, 2015 at 2:38 PM

I am so confused by why we got rsvps back that say "maybe" on them. The just hand wrote it in. We got 3 families rsvps back like this. Not to mention we got less than half our rsvps back by our rsvp...

Monana, Apr 2, 2015 31 2,256
Rebecca
Wedding Invitations - Return Address
Rebecca, on March 31, 2015 at 3:49 PM

I have been reading different topics on how to place a return address label, and I saw most said that it should go on the back of the envelope. Would it be ok to put my return address label on the...

Mrs. B in 2015, Apr 2, 2015 27 1,085
Elizabeth
Should I invite my new coworkers?
Elizabeth, on March 31, 2015 at 10:05 AM

I got engaged in July and started a new job in January. I've only known my new coworkers for 2.5 months and none have met my fiance yet. If I invite my manager, I feel like I should invite my whole...

K8 D, Apr 2, 2015 26 2,161
Taryn
Spinoff: personalized name hangers-CONFUSION!
Taryn, on April 2, 2015 at 1:59 PM

I see some people putting "Mrs. Future Name" & some just put there first name. I'm so confused on which to order! I love the idea of having the "Mrs. Future Name" but I'm confused because technically...

VMDIZZLE, Apr 2, 2015 14 295
V
Need your advice on my invitation: Attire & Capitalization
VWCat, on April 2, 2015 at 12:21 PM

Hi all! I'm trying to determine capitalization on wedding invitations. Can you let me know if this looks correct: Name & Name Invite you to celebrate with them On their wedding day Saturday, October...

VWCat, Apr 2, 2015 12 1,758
Imtheone4Him
Can i get something un-engraved that i got from my first marriage?
Imtheone4Him, on April 2, 2015 at 2:20 AM

This is sound worse than it is...Some years ago my parents bought my ex husband a I a beautiful knife and server set. It was expensive....For my second marriage we are not having cake so im not...

Nancy Taussig, Apr 2, 2015 3 3,172
Lucy
"Sneaking out" during reception
Lucy, on March 27, 2015 at 1:28 AM

Has anyone been to a wedding where the bride and groom sneak away sometime during the reception to squeeze in some extra pics with their photographer? (At the reception venue, but maybe for purposes...

mrsg, Apr 1, 2015 43 2,919
Vanessa
Spin-off: Where do you draw the line for gift registry items?
Vanessa, on April 1, 2015 at 3:43 PM

I recently went to a wedding and purchased something off of their gift registry but they had all kinds of things on there and I was just like ummm..... For example an Ipad, Ipad mini, Xbox, Wii, TV,...

Pancakes, Apr 1, 2015 21 3,059 1
FFW
"we're just enjoying being engaged"
FFW, on April 1, 2015 at 1:42 PM

Before my engagement and right after the proposal I would see a lot of articles about what to say after getting engaged and people jumping right down your throat about "Whens the wedding?" "Where's...

GeekyBride, Apr 1, 2015 56 173
Daisha
Bridal Shower: Do I invite the uninvited??
Daisha, on March 31, 2015 at 2:16 PM

Ok, so I'm having a medium sized wedding. We are trying not to go over 100 guests. I'm not going to be able to invite ALL of my friends. So my question is who can I invite to my bridal shower? I've...

Marbles, Apr 1, 2015 28 318
Kristina
Bachelorette for pregnant bride
Kristina, on April 1, 2015 at 11:55 AM

Any ideas on what to gift a pregnant bachelorette? She will be about 5.5 months at the time of the party. Obviously not doing the wild party thing, but still want to gift her something! Normally would...

Kristina, Apr 1, 2015 10 1,905
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