Discussions from Etiquette and Advice

We decided to do majority of our wedding registry at BBY. The only problem is they don't sell gas lawn mower or gas snow blowers. Did did everyone else registry for these items?

I messed up. I should have asked about how long it would take to get wedding pictures back. I haven't posted my BAM because I don't really have pictures to share (our ceremony was unplugged). I sent...

Okay so during my planning stages I remember seeing a lot of post about B-Listing.. I never really read into it, just knew it was a NO NO!!!! Well DH and I just got invited to a wedding... Though I...

We aren't doing a grand exit with sparklers etc but we will doing a last dance and then a huge group picture at the end of the night! I am having a hard time finding a song that will end the reception...

I am soo late on my invitations haha. I am ordering them tonight! How did you do your RSVP's? Did you put how many seats you reserved for your guests? I was thinking something along the lines of......

I had a great idea to put a space on the RSVP for song requests. We have gotten a few RSVP's back(yay) and FH and I have cringed at some of the songs. Would it be rude to play the less desired songs...

We are having 3 protein choices. For most of our invites, they are for a household. My aunt has 5 kids! How do we get all their choices on one card? Do people know to number them off or something?...

I figured while I was on this board I would get your opinions on this... FH and I have not decided yet on whether we want a traditional head table or a sweetheart table. I know there are pros and cons...

I posted a few things on Facebook in the first couple weeks, but then I read somewhere it's rude to the people not invited to the wedding, which I totally agree with. Most of my Facebook friends are...

Hello ladies, I need your help sorting out a little rehearsal dinner dilemma. My FH fam is paying for the dinner, so his mom suggested to have parents, bridal party, and his aunt and uncle. She has...

Our DOC was provided by our venue and our venue contract included gratuity. Actually, I was told venue owner not to tip any of his staff (except for bartenders) because it was already included in our...

I got a wedding invitation in the mail yesterday. I just checked out the couples website, and in the section about the ceremony, it states that the site is small, and a bit uneven, so seating will be...

So, during cocktail hour, we're setting out a few apps. Nothing fancy, because we don't have a ton of money and because that's not the kind of wedding we're having. Anyway, my mom owns a fondue...

A week ago I posted about FH's grandma dying. His Grandma raised him and along with his grandfather, legally adopted him and his sister when they were little. FH has a very special relationship with...

One of my bridesmaids was asked to stand up in another wedding. On the same day as mine. She was asked quite a long time after I asked her. I am struggling because I know how good of friends she is...

FH and I have lived together for almost 4 years when we get married and we honestly don't have anything that we need for a registry. Instead of asking for gifts we would like to have our registry so...

What's the etiquette on this? Are FH and i just supposed to sit at the front of the room facing everyone like a couple of Lannisters? What are we supposed to do?

If the vendor doesn't specify in the contract whether or not they require a meal, should I still count one for them, or at least ask? Some of my vendors have it in the contract and some don't. I don't...

Both my and FH's parents are generously contributing to our wedding and we'll be giving each set of parents dinner at a really nice restaurant as a thank you. My Aunt (Mom's sister) who I'm very close...

I am having a head table with the bridesmaids and groomsmen and their SO's. So: bride, groom, MOH husband, bridesmaid husband, BM wife, GM wife. 10 people total. My question is, is there a specific...