My fiancé and I are planning a Sat. morning wedding and brunch for 5/14/16. I am very practical and spending over $10k on one day, no matter what the day is, is not me, plus we're broke anyway. We're having a huge mostly breakfast (with a few lunch options) buffet following our 10:30 ceremony at the same location. The brunch will be from 11 to 3. We're just looking to have a nice, somewhat elegant meal, no dancing at the brunch. I don't think it will last til 3. At 8:00 that night we're having a relaxed appetizer and dessert dance party with beer and wine at our local fire hall for our family and friends that want to party. This is the first plan we've come up with that I'm excited about. My issue is my dad doesn't like the fact that we do not plan on serving alcohol, other than Mimosas, at the brunch. I don't think it's necessary and it's expensive. Am I being rude if I don't have an open bar at brunch? Especially if I have one that night and have mimosas at brunch