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Savvy May 2016

Mimosa's Only Acceptable at Brunch Reception?

clarkinseywedding, on April 10, 2015 at 11:10 AM Posted in Etiquette and Advice 0 13

My fiancé and I are planning a Sat. morning wedding and brunch for 5/14/16. I am very practical and spending over $10k on one day, no matter what the day is, is not me, plus we're broke anyway. We're having a huge mostly breakfast (with a few lunch options) buffet following our 10:30 ceremony at the same location. The brunch will be from 11 to 3. We're just looking to have a nice, somewhat elegant meal, no dancing at the brunch. I don't think it will last til 3. At 8:00 that night we're having a relaxed appetizer and dessert dance party with beer and wine at our local fire hall for our family and friends that want to party. This is the first plan we've come up with that I'm excited about. My issue is my dad doesn't like the fact that we do not plan on serving alcohol, other than Mimosas, at the brunch. I don't think it's necessary and it's expensive. Am I being rude if I don't have an open bar at brunch? Especially if I have one that night and have mimosas at brunch

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Latest activity by Jacqui76, on April 10, 2015 at 4:48 PM
  • FFW
    Master August 2016
    FFW ·
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    Tell you dad what it cost to have other options at the brunch, if he wants it maybe he'll pay for it. If not tell him it's not in your budget.

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  • Taryn
    Super May 2015
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    I love brunch and I love mimosas. Can I come?! Lol

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  • Celia Milton
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    I don't think you really need an extensive open bar, but adding plain champagne and wine will probably not add to your cost, especially if you go with modest brands. I know it's horrifying, but you could do boxed Pinot Grigio in carafes, Verdi and juices and I bet it wouldn't add to the total bill at all. Although I don't know anyone like this, some people do not like champagne or champagne based drinks....

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  • Jessica
    Master May 2016
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    Brunch and mimosas sound great to me. But maybe you can add wine to please him. If you're allowed to bring in your own alcohol, it isn't too expensive and will give another option to those who don't like champagne

    ETA: I like Celia's idea

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  • Karen
    Expert September 2015
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    I don't think it's bad, who doesn't love a mimosa?! You could also do a little more without going to a full open bar. Bloody Mary's are a brunch favorite too!

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  • Stephanie
    VIP May 2015
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    I think just mimosas are fine if adding other options would be too much. Tell dad he can drink later!

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  • Beth
    Master May 2015
    Beth ·
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    Open mimosa bar?! Where is my invite?? That sounds awesome. If you have an open bar at night, the people can just drink other things then. I wouldn't worry about it.

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  • clarkinseywedding
    Savvy May 2016
    clarkinseywedding ·
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    Just to clarify the mimosa's come with the package and they're served from a punch bowl. It's at a golf course that has a bar downstairs so we can't bring our own alcohol.

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  • Brigit
    Master October 2015
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    Mimosa's are great, but i love a good bloody mary too

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  • StarFromIHJ
    Master August 2016
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    I agree, Bloody Mary's would also be awesome. If I were attending a brunch wedding I'd expect mimosas and bloody Mary's with perhaps a champagne toast.

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  • Amy
    Expert May 2015
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    The mimosas sound great! I'm totally crashing your party :-)

    I think that, with the open bar at the evening party, that's plenty. If your dad wants extra options to be available for brunch, perhaps if you explain that it's not in your budget, he'll offer to pay for it. If not, hey, it's YOUR wedding, YOUR budget and YOUR vision for your celebration. Don't cave if you don't want to.

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  • Laura
    Just Said Yes May 2016
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    We are doing the 10:30am wedding with a brunch reception, and a party later in the evening 2 weeks after you! We are doing mimosas and bloody marys. I think it is perfect for the day time! In the evening we will have an open bar with everything.

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  • Jacqui76
    Master May 2016
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    We're having a brunch reception too, one week after yours. We're having a sangria station. My fiance was not sure he liked the idea of only having sangria since he thinks only the girls will want to drink that. We don't think an open bar is necessary at a brunch, and we were looking to keep our costs down too. Our coordinator first suggested that we could have a cash bar. Then she told him that he could choose an amount of money like $200 to put on a tab, and just offer draft and domestic beer, with an option for people to buy other things if they want. He seemed to be happy with that option so I think that's what we're going to do.

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