Discussions from Etiquette and Advice

So silly question. Did you all send postage paid RSVP cards to your immediate family and bridal party? I have no problem doing so I'm just curious if everyone does and do you expect them to mail them...

I keep hearing from brides that say they are relieved or happy when the declines start coming in. Have any of you been upset/angry when you have received a decline from someone you were hoping would...

Is anyone using plastic dinnerware instead of fine china? To keep cost down?

What song are you having for the bouquet toss .. anything BUT "All the Single Ladies". I am looking for something different...yet fun!

I'm going on a tour of our #1 venue choice next Wednesday evening and my fiancé is actually off of work for once - I'm wondering if it's appropriate to bring him, or even if it is, if it's a good...

I have put FH on task to secure the kegs. Honestly, I know I will end up dealing with it last minute. Anyway...Full or half kegs? We want hard cider and probably a light beer. We are not offering wine...

I have a ceremony space from 130-3pm and on the contract it has ceremony time starting at 2pm. My fiance highly suggests that we put 130pm start time, however I think that I should put the 2pm exact...

I'm a little alarmed because our reception venue only has 2 reviews on WW (3 on TK), but they are a "Featured" vendor?? One was from 2008 and one from 2012. One of them mentioned they were not allowed...

Hi ladies. I am having a Sunday wedding in May. I'm considering a ceremony time of 12 or 1pm, and a reception of about 5-6 hours and only an hour gap max in between for pictures. (Venue and reception,...

They don't get held accountable for ANYTHING! Basically they could verbally lie to you and there's nothing you can do?? You can't sue, if you have to cancel they get a certain % of what they think...

Are you and your BM walking down the aisle to the same song? Or when your BP walks down the aisle, do they put on a different song for you? I am stuck EDIT: Ps , am i the only one who cries when I...

My mom is hosting a post-wedding brunch at her home the morning after the wedding for out-of-town family on our side. She wants us to stop in for "just 20 minutes" before we head to the airport for...

Aghhh,,, I really hope this RSVP process wont be too hard.. So my FH and I sent out our invitations last night. Today, my aunt phoned me and told me verbally that she my uncle and cousin will be...

So we are having a hard time picking out songs for the mother/son dances...we will be having 2 of them because there have been 2 women in his life that have stepped into a mother like role. Problem is...

This is all driving me insane...all the hunting and searching is not quite providing the information I need. My uncle is giving me away and we were all born in Trinidad, but I can't seem to find a...

Hey all, I'm renting a car from May 28-30th as I am flying back home to do my wedding dress fitting and have my bachelorette party! My family/friends all live about 2 hours from the airport, and I...

A close friend of mine is getting married later this year on a very far, very expensive tropical island. It would be about $5000 for us to attend, so FH and I RSVPed no. They are planning to...

I heard about this on the radio the other day. You enter in all the info about the event you are attending and poof! it magically tells you how much is "appropriate" to give. Out of curiosity, I...

I was thinking of getting a suite or two for my Bridesmaids and I for the night before the wedding. Two of them have SO's that are invited to the rehearsal dinner and the wedding, three are not...

We have to travel from our reception to our hotel, do I change before we go or do I just show up in my ballgown of a wedding dress?