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Close family friends declined invite. Is it alright to tell them that I am upset?
Private User, on May 17, 2015 at 5:18 PM

I just found out a few hours ago that some close friends and their family are unable to attend my wedding because of "logistics." I quote logistics because while the drive would be long -...

Barbara, May 17, 2015 11 6,418
Mrs. Lav
NWR and maybe TMI: dog ate a condom
Mrs. Lav, on May 17, 2015 at 11:17 AM

He pooped it out this morning and seems okay, but I can't help feeling a little concerned. He's a little guy--only 7lbs. Any experience? For the record, we're usually pretty good about wrapping them...

Mrs. Nicole, May 17, 2015 16 2,822
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Vent: is it possible to uninvite a groomsmen
Coco L., on May 16, 2015 at 1:24 PM

My fiancée and I have an uneven number of groomsmen vs bridesmaids. He has 3, I have 4. He took a long time to decide if he would ask the 3rd guy but now I'm not sure if it was a mistake. The 3rd guy...

Lucy, May 17, 2015 15 1,063
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Hotel room blocks
Jac3286, on May 6, 2015 at 9:22 PM

I spoke to the hotel where we are getting our room block and they said they will hold the rooms until 6 weeks prior to the date, which seems really early to me. If our invites go out 8 weeks before...

Nicole, May 17, 2015 21 175
Leah
Can I Just Get Married on a Beach Somewhere?
Leah, on May 11, 2015 at 8:10 PM

Hi everyone! My name is Leah and my fiance Dan & I are college sweethearts (and almost college graduates, too!) with a wedding date set for September of 2016. Everyone in my family has always had very...

Breanna, May 16, 2015 11 147
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Separate After Party Guest List...
Victoria, on May 14, 2015 at 11:18 PM

Hi! I am looking for some honest reactions. We want to have a small ceremony. I get to spend our small budget on things I really want and only have the people we feel comfortable with and truly love...

Erica and Brian, May 15, 2015 34 1,970
BringOnMay!
How long to get your marriage certificate?
BringOnMay!, on March 9, 2015 at 2:16 PM

How long does it take to get your marriage certificate? Assuming you mail it ASAPafter the wedding, is it something that takes 2 weeks to get back or a month or two? I can not find anything on it! I'm...

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Describe your "entrance"
ChampagneDream, on May 14, 2015 at 8:42 PM

My brain is fried!! I can't think of something fun and cute to do for our reception entrance. How is yours going to be??

Marisslee, May 15, 2015 11 69
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Showers/Jack and Jills
Delia, on May 14, 2015 at 1:47 PM

Being on the younger side of things, a lot of my friends are still away at grad school or just starting careers, a few even finishing up their undergrads. Since I'm not much different, I understand...

MissShandi, May 14, 2015 83 853
Keeping Up with the Jones
Open Bar or Kegs?
Keeping Up with the Jones, on May 14, 2015 at 10:12 AM

So my fiancee and I are going round about the stupid alcohol situation. We have to use our venue for alcohol. He just wants to buy kegs from them and set them up in the reception area. I want to use...

Mallory M., May 14, 2015 23 3,706
Danielle
Anyone a fan of the choreographed first dance
Danielle, on May 14, 2015 at 12:44 PM

I asked fh if he wanted to do a choreographed dance like 1 we made up nothing fancy just fun, he's a party pooper and said no. I was like well that's not fun then I thought well I still can with my...

MG, May 14, 2015 32 243
Laurie
Who gets to invite the Stepmother?
Laurie, on May 14, 2015 at 12:27 PM

I am having 2 bridal showers, one is being hosted by my mother and one is being hosted by my fiancé's mother. My future mother in law has asked me if I would invite my fiancé's stepmother to the...

Laurie, May 14, 2015 2 113
Keeping Up with the Jones
Maid of Honor is seriously slacking
Keeping Up with the Jones, on May 13, 2015 at 7:29 PM

So I asked a very good friend to be my maid of honor and she happily accepted and seemed excited at first. Now she is very grumpy and unfriendly towards me to the point I don't even make an effort to...

Brenda, May 14, 2015 8 700
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EDIT: If you're doing a receiving line, I have questions. (Former title: Are you doing a receiving line?)
VWCat, on May 13, 2015 at 11:08 AM

So I'm definitely doing a receiving line for multiple reasons. 1) we have 136 invited guests, 2) it's traditional and I want to do one, and 3) it gives us a chance to greet and thank in person all of...

Sarahdell, May 14, 2015 29 1,567
Cat On a Hot Tin Roof
Not invited to cousin's wedding, should I invite her to mine?
Cat On a Hot Tin Roof, on May 13, 2015 at 5:25 PM

My cousin is getting married for the 2nd time. I was invited to her first small wedding, went to shower, responded to RSVP, and gave generous gifts. Now she is getting married again, this time a big...

Kimberly, May 13, 2015 15 2,924
MrsPope
"Drop it like its HOT..." (Selfies)
MrsPope, on May 13, 2015 at 11:25 AM

I LOVE to see your beautiful faces! Share a selfie of yourself...only if you want to of course! This is me over the weekend!

Robin, May 13, 2015 109 248
mrjonesandme
Not close to my sister...do you regret not having family in the wedding?
mrjonesandme, on May 11, 2015 at 11:36 PM

My sister and I do not get along. We never have. She is the type that has to be the center of attention, was in all sort of trouble when we were younger, never really grew up even though she is 28...

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Future sister in law as bridesmaid?
Private User, on October 8, 2012 at 12:15 AM

My fiance and I are having a very small bridal party. He has asked his very best friend to be his best man and he is considering a second groomsman, that's it. The very thought of having to find a...

Katie, May 13, 2015 8 2,918
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"Friend" Booked Same Wedding Venue
Catherine, on September 18, 2014 at 11:21 AM

I have recently booked a wedding venue for October 3, 2015. A friend approached me after recently hearing our big news and announced that she and her fiance are interested in booking the same venue,...

Kay D, May 12, 2015 19 3,081
ToBeMrsJBSoon
Do NOT want to invite my sister to my wedding!!
ToBeMrsJBSoon, on May 11, 2015 at 11:35 AM

I'm having a VERY small 20-person wedding, and only 3 people in my family are invited - my mom, dad and sister. No wedding party (if so, parents will INSIST sis is in it)... My sister is a complete...

Promike, May 11, 2015 10 2,318
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