Discussions from Etiquette and Advice

Try though I might, I can't find any data on this. Does anyone know a rough idea of how guests show up when the invitation reads black tie optional? Do most guests do tuxedos? Do they just wear dark...

I'm sure this has been asked but I can't search on the app. My FMIL is insisting we have a money tree at our shower and wedding. I HATE this idea. I feel like it's so tacky and I can't even think of a...

Okay everyone. We all have those family members that take it way too far for drinking. I was thinking about eliminating hard liquor during the reception. Possibly have hard liquor during appetizers...

What's the etiquette on registry cards these days? We don't really have a website going and I don't have the time or patience to put together one currently before the invites go out. Can we put a...

My bridal shower is this Saturday. Wedding is in August. While doing some last-minute registry updates (Bed, Bath, and Beyond) I found a TON of stuff that we never put on there. Lots of candy, lip...

Opinions on phoneless or "unplugged" ceremonies?

OK so my bartender sent me the option of getting a keg of beer for $350 each or getting bottles for $4 each. I don't drink beer but that's one drink option so I'm trying to see if anyone...

Alrighty so I've been meaning to make this post for a while. We have 3 entree options and 200 guests so assigned seats are required (I wanted them anyways). WEIRD, but I have NEVER been to a wedding...

So FH and I had a pretty major falling out with a friend that we had planned on inviting and had already mailed a save the date to. It was a small disagreement about a bill while we were out and this...

I decided to have both a matron of honor and a maid of honor. My sister (who is 9 years older) is my matron and my best friend from high school (who also introduced me and my fiancé) is my maid of...

Okay everyone. I've been lurking for a while on Mozilla posts, but I really need help. My mom has become out of hand. The past 7 months of our engagement have actually been the worst and I've started...

I was on here a few days ago talking about bridal pictures and whether or not to do them. My family paid the price for them and so I was able to do it. Long story short...I hate them. There's a...

My sister is 8 years younger than I am. I think that she is too young to be a maid of honor, but still a bridesmaid. The problem is I want to have 2 matron of honors. My best friend and my...

I'm having a hard time deciding where to draw the line when it comes to who to invite and who not to. FH and I were thinking about having 70 people maximum at our destination wedding in Hawaii. After...

Is there a general rule on how many ushers you should have? Just trying to figure out what we all need but not sure how to go about it...

Picking our date was a huge battle... my grooms parents were very set on us having a Sunday wedding (because they are vietnamese and it will be easier for his family and parents friends to come on a...

We are not doing a seating plan because we have a buffet styled menu. But can you do a seating plan even if ?

Hi all, my ring is non-traditional — a designer ring, not meant to be an engagement ring that my fiance had reset in white gold after a few stones came loose. The new metal helps, but the design...

My father has two bad hips and two bad knees and uses a cane for support. On top of that he has myasthenia gravis so that impacts his mobility as well. Needless to say dancing is not something he will...

Tomorrow is our first session and I'm kinda nervous, I just don't know what to expect. Those of you who did/are doing this, what is it like? I'd like to thank those who share in advance, I can...