Discussions from Etiquette and Advice

I am really up in the air about hiring a videographer. Originally I was not going to and was okay with just sticking with photos but now I kind of want one. I am going back and forth with myself...

We will be assigning tables, not seats, and we will be doing escort cards for our guests. Do we make out an escort card for John Doe's girlfriend Sally Jane individually? Or do we just do one escort...

I am from Pittsburgh so the cookie table is not optional for me. I am inviting 204 guests. I expect 175ish to come. How many cookies would you say per person? Or how many dozens all together? Thank...

My brother is in the middle of college and been dating a girl now for a year. My mom says they're pretty serious and I was planning on inviting her even though I've never met her. It's a DH wedding...

FH and I were looking into having a car service pick us up from the reception and take us to the hotel we are staying at about 10 minutes away after the reception. We couldn't believe the price! All...

Just want to know how many of you are waiting to have the honeymoon? Me and FH most likely can't afford to do it right away but now I'm getting sad that it won't be right after. We'd even have to wait...

Hi everyone! So, we are not having many children at our wedding (just ring bearer and flower girl plus kids I nanny). I have a few guests traveling from out of state who will not have a babysitter...

I've been talking with two photographers and have decided which one I want to use. What do I say to the other to let them know I won't be needing them? Just keep it simple? This is my first time doing...

Hello everyone just wanted some opinions. So ive been living with my boyfriend for 3 years im currently 5 months pregnant with his child. My family invites and includes my boyfriend in every event....

My parents have been divorced for 17 years. My dad is remarried but my mom is not. I think my mom still has a hard time with that. I am not close with my stepmom but i dont have a problem with her...

I'm trying to figure out this transportation situation. FH and I are getting ready at two different locations, then we need transportation for everyone with us to get to the venue (5 people in the...

My wedding is some time away, but I have asked two people to be apart of my BP, my sister and FSIL. FH really wants his sister in the BP, so I agreed. FSIL is 19 and FMIL is very controlling in...

I'm looking for anyone who has experience with a Anglican/Episcopal ceremony. The ceremony layout, wording, order is established in the Book of Common Prayer, and my priest/ church will not deviate...

So my FH parents are hosting the rehersal dinner. They are extremely religious and always pray before every meal even in public. I am wondering how rude it would be to ask them to pray amongst...

I want to give my future in laws gifts at the rehearsal dinner. My FMIL is really easy to shop for, so I've already gotten a nice gift for her. I asked my FH and FMIL what they think FFIL would like....

Is anyone else not that excited about the wedding? I see so many people on here counting down the days or get upset when their bridesmaids aren't excited. I just don't feel that excited for the big...

So I'm going through all the paperwork sent by my DJ, and it has the spot for all the names of the BP for the big announcement of the entrance into cocktail hour. Since we're not doing a first look, I...

Im thinking about doing my bridals in some sort of body of water. A waterfall, the river, etc. Has anyone done this and how did your dress do?!

This post is mostly for newlyweds. Did you actually need your guest book and what did you do with it afterwards?

I have a bridesmaid who found out she was pregnant in March. I still wanted her in the wedding but it doesn't seem like she wants to. My maid of honor and I have sent numerous messages to her and the...