Discussions from Etiquette and Advice

I just have to rant about some super rude people! We are a still (a week out) having guests tell us "well we aren't for sure if we can come or not, we might just show up" to which my inner bitch wants...

Hello! What is the etiquette for a registry when you are doing a destination wedding. We were originally going to have one of those " Your presence is present enough" But we know that not everyone can...

I had a work shower a week ago, and today I was starting to write thank you notes however I realized I lost the list that had everyone's gift on it! Do I just write a generic thank you note now since...

Is it customary to tip the baker who makes your wedding cake? If so, what percentage is appropriate? Thanks in advance!

There is typically a week lag time for mail to get to my family in Canada. My whole Stepdads side of the family is up there so it's a significant number of people. Also, we are having a local wedding...

My FH was previously married and left his ex in June of 2015 and filed for divorce later that month. By November of 2015 they had gone to court and received temporary orders for everything (split of...

The lady who has been doing my dress alterations has been amazing. She offered me three fittings, has made sure that my dress is going to fit exactly right on my wedding day, and is even holding my...

So I have a dilemma, one of my best friends/bridesmaid is able to go to the ceremony but is unable to attend the reception due to her work putting her on a mandatory weekend. She had asked for it off...

Help, my FH can't decide on a mother-son song for their dance. I know sometimes they join on the dance floor half way through the father-daughter, but they want a separate song, as my Dad and I are...

Adding up the pros and cons of having a winter wedidng, I hadn't even considered the idea of being more likely to get sick. So here I am three days to go, no voice and a horrid cough, anyone have some...

What is your timeline for the evening? I am having my ceremony and reception in the same place and wanted to know if 6 hours for the evening is a good amount. The location is 30-45 minutes from...

We'd like to use the engagement photos for a save the date but our wedding is in may next year. Does it matter what season we get the photos done if we are sending the save the dates the first week of...

The Pianist is the brides mother's friend, who then changed her mind last minute and opted to only play one song and now we have to hire someone else to do what she was originally going to. Do we...

Hello everyone! So I have finally completed my name change with every government office except for the Passport Agency. I have the paperwork, am getting my picture taken today, and dropping everything...

About 2/3rds of our invite list has not rsbp'ed yet (we did not do formal letter rsvps, they either call/text a number or use our website). How do I politely ask them via a text or Facebook message if...

Hi-I'm hoping some of you out there who are married or have done your programs could send me the wording you used for catholic wedding mass. I keep going to try to do it myself but it just seems to...

Hey ladies! Did you all do a gift for your Hubby to be and a sweet note? What type of gift did you get him and if was something he could wear/use the day of the wedding did he? Also totally doing the...

I was just wondering since i don't remember couples doing that a few years ago. Is this a recent trend? My fiance doesn't see the need and i have to say im on the same page.

Hi everyone! My FH goes by Danny, and only for legal documents uses Daniel. For STDS I used Danny. But For invitations would I use daniel? Does it matter? He would prefer Danny but formality says I...